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How To Get Your Child To Obey You

It is a common complaint of parents in the modern world that their child would rather spend time with their mobile device as opposed to time spent with them

By Ayesha AmjadPublished 4 years ago 3 min read
How To Get Your Child To Obey You
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It is a common complaint of parents in the modern world that their child would rather spend time with their mobile device as opposed to time spent with them. Many people have never had to deal with this problem, but for those who are struggling with it, please read on.


• Why children refuse to obey
There are many reasons why children refuse to obey their parents. It could be because they want to test their limits, see how much they can get away with, or simply because they don’t understand what’s expected of them. Regardless of the reason, it’s important for parents to remain calm and consistent when dealing with disobedient children.

One way to get your child to obey is to offer incentives for good behavior. This could be in the form of praise, prizes, or even extra screen time. However, it’s important not to give in to every demand, as this will only teach your child that they can get whatever they want by misbehaving.

Another way to get your child to obey is through disciplinary action. This could involve anything from a time-out to losing privileges. It’s important to be consistent with disciplinary action, as children will quickly learn that they can get away with bad behavior if they’re not punished every time.

The most important thing to remember when trying to get your child to obey is that patience is key. It takes time for children to learn what’s expected of them, and there will inevitably be setbacks along the way. But as long as you remain calm and consistent.


• 5 rules that will help you get your kids to listen
If you’re struggling to get your kids to obey you, then try these simple rules. With consistency and a bit of patience, you’ll soon see an improvement in their behavior.

1. Make sure your expectations are realistic. Kids are not going to obey you all the time, so don’t expect them to. Set realistic goals for their behavior and be patient as they learn to follow your rules.

2. Be consistent with your expectations and rewards. If you want your kids to obey you, then you need to be consistent in what you expect from them and how you reward them for good behavior.


3. Be clear and concise when giving instructions. Kids are more likely to obey you if they understand what you want them to do. Avoid giving long-winded explanations or instructions that are too complicated for them to understand.

4. Use positive reinforcement instead of punishment. Kids are more likely to respond positively to praise and rewards than they are to punishment. If they know that they will be rewarded for obeying you, they’re more likely to do so.


5. Give consequences for bad behavior. If your kids don’t obey you, then there should be consequences for their actions.

• What you can do in a case of disobedience
There are a few things you can do when your child disobeys you. First, try to stay calm. It’s important not to yell or lose your temper, as this will only make the situation worse. Second, try to identify the reason for the disobedience. Is there something that you can do to make the situation more manageable for your child? If so, take steps to rectify the situation. Finally, set clear and consistent rules for your child, and make sure they understand the consequences for breaking those rules. By taking these steps, you can help reduce instances of disobedience from your child.


• Conclusion
You’ve made it to the end of our guide on how to get your child to obey you. We hope you’ve found the information and tips in this guide helpful. Remember, every child is different and what works for one may not work for another. The most important thing is to be patient, consistent, and loving with your child. With a little time and effort, you’ll be able to get your child to obey you more often than not.

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