
It's another weekend, a full and busy weekend. I will stay with my family at home this weekend. There are things to do every day, with his wife, with his son, with his daughter, cooking, shopping, shopping, washing dishes, etc. It is the life of a family.
1. Accompanying
1. Accompany your children. Accompanying is the theme, either with the son or the daughter. The main things for children are doing homework, watching TV, and playing games. The main things to accompany her daughter are watching cartoons, playing games, and sliding downstairs to skateboard.
Feeling is an indispensable person. Although my son is already a teenager, he still relies on adults. He sleeps at night and likes me to sleep with him. Going to school is really hard, especially this year, it is still the third year of junior high school, and the pressure on the high school entrance examination is getting closer and closer. It can be said that it is a few days to go to school. Yesterday I told me that there are more than 180 days before the high school entrance examination.
My sister’s theme is, don’t go to kindergarten tomorrow, just start this year, get off work, and start a small class in September. For a total of more than two months, I caught a cold yesterday. I didn't go to class for nearly half a month, but the children also have the pressure to go to kindergarten. I just joked to him that forever children are waiting for you to play with toys. Of course, to play games, he will forget the unhappiness of going to kindergarten, and his heart is filled with the feeling of playing with toys and games, so interest comes.
2. Family leisure. During the weekends, everything is busier than ever before. They usually go to work during the day, their younger sister goes to kindergarten, and their son goes to school. Everyone has things to do. When everyone is free on weekends, it’s time for company.
Every day I cook, my main task is to wash the dishes and clean up the mess, and my wife is responsible for buying vegetables and cooking. My wife is responsible for cooking the food, I am responsible for cleaning the dishes and chopsticks, and cleaning the table. This is our division of labor. My wife’s cooking is very sweet. Although she has not received professional training, the cooked rice tastes good, the color and fragrance are delicious, and it can be combined with the chef’s. Every time a customer comes over, he will treat my wife’s dishes. Great appreciation.
Therefore, every meal is a kind of enjoyment, and it is also a kind of worry. To enjoy is to enjoy the delicious food. Worrying, eating too much makes it easy to gain weight. This is pain and happiness.
I am also studying now. I do more housework at home when I am resting, whether it is sweeping the floor, washing clothes, or work. Doing more housework at home is also a kind of compensation to the family. Do your part and let your family and wife bear less burden. To be honest, a woman is really courageous in the family. Taking care of children, cooking and cooking, washing clothes, etc. are all a woman's daily life.
3. Go shopping. Then there is time to go shopping. The new house is convenient for everything in the city center. It is also convenient for shopping and eating. After eating, you are shopping. Going to the supermarket in the night market in Guangzhou is a kind of entertainment. It is not only necessary to buy things. But only for men, it is normal for women to buy a bunch of things after shopping. Sometimes buying clothes for myself, sometimes buying clothes for me, sometimes buying clothes and food for my children, these all require him to think about all of these, and I have become a shopkeeper, used to eat and wear.
Shopping may be a kind of torture for men, but it is a kind of enjoyment for women. Obviously, they are tired after doing a lot of work, but when they go shopping, they live and live without feeling tired. This phenomenon is not uncommon.
2. Accompanying
1. With son for morning jog. His son is facing the senior high school entrance examination and physical fitness test immediately in the third grade of junior high school. The physical fitness test is a difficult point for him, because since he entered junior high school, his height has increased by leaps and bounds, and his weight has also increased by leaps and bounds. fat.
Gradually, some complications of physique, this will naturally appear. Take the little girl to see the skin on Saturday. I also asked about some skin symptoms of my son. The doctor suggested that too fat is prone to these accompanying symptoms and can lose weight successfully. These symptoms It will disappear naturally.
After I came back to communicate with him, my son also let go of his burdens and focused on weight control. He didn’t eat midnight snacks from Saturday to night. I originally took him for a run this Saturday and Sunday morning. It’s Saturday, because my own confidence is not firm. , Did not take him. I took him for a walk on Sunday morning. It’s a good start. I used to worry that it was too hard at school from Monday to Friday. There was no requirement for him on Saturday and Sunday. But now that I look at it this way, he is confident to follow I went for a run. This is a good thing. I took him for a run for nearly 5 kilometers along the river this morning. His condition was not as bad as I thought. It was okay.
2. Little girl. The little girl is very sensible, and she can often communicate with her like an adult. She understands every truth, and he can answer like an adult when he asks him one thing.
In his current state, he wanted to talk like an adult, but he was still a child, and many things made people laugh. I don’t know if I’m tired when I play. It can take him a long time to go downstairs to pick up the vegetable scooter after dinner, and I don’t feel tired. Sometimes I don’t do anything, but I’m tired. Dad, you hug me.
He has a hobby, he likes to wear skirts to go shopping in the store. Wear a skirt to sleep at night, and wear a skirt to go to kindergarten in the morning. The first thing to wear a skirt is to make a circle there to make the skirt fly. This is his biggest hobby, and I also ask again: Is Dad beautiful?
3. Cook. The skill of cooking was suddenly lost. I used to cook at home before I was in high school. I was the chef. I usually cook for all the guests at home. After a few years in college, after a sudden unfamiliar marriage, this function I haven't recovered yet, and I met my wife, the chef, otherwise I can't find the self-confidence of the cook.
Now I have finished the division of labor at home, mainly washing dishes, washing dishes, and tidying up tableware. I also feel happy to do it. I wash the dishes and chopsticks cleanly. Pay attention to the cleaning. The stove is very clean. I think this It is also a kind of enjoyment.
Three, thinking
1. Happy family. A happy family should make quarrels less, be more happy, let the wife see the hope of life, and let the children feel the harmony of their parents. This is what happiness looks like. Sometimes I think that a man should learn. Restraint, don't often lose your temper with your wife and children. Good principles need to be spoken slowly. If you find differences, you should communicate quietly. Losing your temper is a very irresponsible practice.
This is a very important aspect. Only by controlling your temper can you maintain the harmony and warmth of your family and make your children happy.
2. The growth of children. Be with your children, understand their concerns and pay attention to their happiness. I have recently listened to a lot of books about children's education in Fan Deng's lectures. Most of them talk about paying more attention to children and accompanying them instead of preaching.
Another direction for children is to be a good example. What the parents do, the children will learn. From my daughter, I can see that he likes to imitate the actions of adults. How did you do it? He will do the same with you, so the role model of an adult is very important. We must learn well, how can we be ourselves?
3. Direction. Everyone has a different direction in life. Find your own direction. Contact more successful people, drink less, talk boastfully, do things do not rely on success, few people contact, and set your own direction. Then work hard, create conditions, and let myself move in the established direction. I have gained so far.




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