Feel the love language of Dad

It is very difficult to express the relationship with the father in words. Father's love is unique, and this love is mostly inexpressible to his family. Father's love contains many tastes of love like little sour and hard, but still, this love shows some other kind of sweetness. It compels me to acknowledge how I've spent most of my life sorting myself with erroneous masculinity notions. We are trained to believe that vulnerability equals weakness as children. It all starts with childhood. When we fall he is the one who, instead of showing very sweet gestures, told us to get up and walk and scrape our knees. So, he shows strong gestures and tries to build us strong with another level of affection. This affection speaks of love language. Usually, the sobbing and expressing emotions are exclusively female behaviours like our mothers have more sentiments than fathers. But the father's way of expressing his emotions has another kind of love. The inexpressible love showers on the family in a very calm way and gives a special kind of calmness to his family.

Most fathers are not emotive, and they have less habit of being panicked in tough conditions. So, they never cry and try to buck up their family. Fathers mostly hide their inner secrets, and they avoid discussing their suffering problems with their children and wife. If they decide to discuss, then they choose a very tactful way that causes minor harm to their families. Father takes hardships to his own and endeavours to solve them on their own.

It's a fact that women and girls use crying as a superpower, and this power is most probably accessible to ladies. But fathers have more stamina to control their sentiments and they, when upset, tears don't fall from their eyes.

My childhood very came. I had an enjoyable upbringing for the most part. My parents had a happy marriage. I was fortunate to have a good group of pals. I had my needs, even if I didn't have everything I want. My father always used to live a tough life. He is a tough man and paid us a comfortable life in a very tough condition. My mother was able to work as a full-time housewife because of these privileges, and she also enjoyed a good life with my father due to his good temperament.

Sometimes children feel that their dad doesn't love them, but it's a misunderstanding because father often does not display their affection, but they love their children. It's a very rare occasion to hear the words of love from a father. Fathers speak a different love language.

Mostly, fathers have very less time to spend with family together. It is because they have separate responsibilities regarding family. So, on most occasions, it becomes difficult for them to attend to their family. But it does not mean that they don't want. Due to many commitments, they are compelled to do this. Therefore, trying to understand these commitments as a child is essential.

Father’s love language is less verbal for his family.

He is a man of many words, and has own integrity. His affection for children also expressed internally. So, the role of the father in the family informs the real taste of fatherhood, and the way fathers raise their children is very appropriate.

It is vital to encourage the children to appreciate their fathers, and they should know the intention of fathers and try to applaud them.

Try to convince the fathers to express their feelings to their children because a man who is prepared to be open about his feelings is capable of leading.