Dealing with grief and emotions part 1

Grief is a natural emotions it allows u to say goodbye without u saying-goodbye. Children that were taught not to cry at a young age have a hard time now crying as adults. (A lot of people think it’s gay or not masculine for a young boy to cry) after all they have been taught (conditioned ) not to do that. Grief that continues to be suppressed because chronic depression (unnatural emotion) people have daughters and killed over this emotion. But Anger, it is a tool God has given us to say no thank you without saying a word. But it doesn’t have to be harmful, damaging or even abusive to another! When children are allowed to express their anger they bring out a very healthy attitude about it to their adult years, and they deal (control their emotions) with their anger much faster. If we continue to say it’s wrong to express ur anger at a young age, what’s going to happen as adults? They’ll have a difficult time dealing with it when they are older. Anger that is repressed because what? RAGE! A very ugly emotion. People have hurt others over rage, it causes family’s to separate, nation’s to fall, relationships to fade away.

ENVY on the other hand is an emotion that allows you to do something again, to try harder, to continue pushing forward until you succeed. So many individuals hate themselves because they feel there is not another who loves them. (That’s unhealthy) it’s when people are truly in love or lovesick. But the truth is, other people do love them, but it doesn’t matter. No matter how many people profess their love for them, it is not enough. First, they don’t believe you. They think you are trying to manipulate them or they think your trying to get something. When you try to show love to people that haven’t learned to love them selves they think. There must be some mistake, you must want something! Now what do you want? They sit around trying to figure out how anyone could actually love them. So they don’t believe you, and embark on a campaign to make you prove it.

Don’t spoil children, give them knowledge 
Just because u fail doesn’t mean stop that’s exactly what the devil wants is for u to stop trying n give up he feeds off that. If u understand the difference between defeat and failure. You know that if ur defeated u learn from your mistake u train you learn harder and you come back and win!!!

To deny our own impulses is to deny the very thing that makes us human! 👁 don’t be human that’s not what we are we are enteral life inside of our flesh our vessel. So to deny human impulses is strength for our soul our spirit our essence. Your mind, your conscious is constantly guiding u and telling u things. U have to stop n listen to what that voice is telling u. It could be saying some helpful stuff and you’ll never know until you wake up and stop letting the world, the government, material things, to, technology, news control your thinking. One of the keys of life is self discovery or self awareness or understanding your divine self, your spirit your being, that lil voice in your head that tells u right from wrong. Once u learn to be in sync with that voice. Positive outcomes happen. It all starts with re conditioning your mindset, the beginning of your life you were taught by your environment and your parents . They raised you a certain way with their beliefs and their mindset! So in a since their mindset is yours. You have to break out of that habit, keeping your morals is great but if your 40 most likely your parents brought you up in a world where it was anger fighting technology was on the rise, think for yourself! Find out new things own your own. Know that lack of understanding doesn’t mean you are uneducated.