Cold marriage and hot online love

On weekends, he got up early and went to Hankou seafood market to buy seafood and cook it for us. Often when he came home, the baby and I were still asleep. I can't do housework, he will grumble occasionally, marry you what use! More often he rolls up his sleeves and goes to the kitchen.

At that time our living conditions gradually better, we bought a house also bought a car, Yu Lei often bought flowers home, excitedly said to me, this flower? I picked flowers that just got off the plane! And I believed the words in the novel at that time, a man is good for you at home, must have done something sorry to you outside! So the nicer he was to me, the more suspicious I became of him.

I never felt that warmth again after I left him. Although Du Ming says he loves me every day, he won't give me anything material. He came from the countryside and invited me to dinner as I used his money, which made me feel bad. And Yu Lei, he never promised anything, but everything for me to do comprehensive.

When Yu Lei came to pick up the baby on Friday, I asked him to sit a little longer. He ignored my tender hints and led the baby downstairs. I called him that evening, and before I could say anything, he said, "What do you want me to do for you? I told you I'm not your husband anymore. You don't want me! To remarry? Why are you still thinking about this? I've told you a hundred times, no way! No way!"

The noise behind him was so loud that I put the receiver away from my ear.I hurt Yu Lei. When I was good with Du Ming, Yu Lei and I were still married. Du Ming said he loved me on the Internet. We are colleagues during the day, we are lovers in the network at night. I was just looking for an ear to listen to, but I didn't notice that when a woman tells a man something she doesn't know, it's a sign.

Du Ming said, from the first sight of you, I fell in love with you. But after ten years of marriage with Yu Lei, I only heard these three words in movies and TV. I became a spectator of love, watching others hug and kiss, my eyes are hot and greedy. Yu Lei is all right, but in his marriage, I do not feel that I am a wife. I enjoyed his care and affection, but as a couple, I was neglected. It made me feel like I was his daughter or sister, but not his wife.

Du Ming sympathized with me. He scolded Yu Lei on the Internet for being selfish. "He must have a lover outside!" The words hit home to me. Yu Lei has a very good female colleague, a year on business trip he gave me and her to buy a pair of identical shoes, and put down the bag from Wuchang to Hankou by car to give her......

You're talented and beautiful, and your husband doesn't value you! Du Ming gave me a hug on the Internet.

At that time I used to give the night to the network, Yu Lei does not need my night. He always said he was tired and busy today and that it was too hot. He pushes me away forever. He does not want me to hug, lower his head to change shoes, turn to strip, until my hug is cold, and then empty.

I said, if you don't love me, love another woman, you can go and her good. Yu Lei vexed me to ask so: "YOU have finished not to end?" Their unit had a dance party, Yu Lei took me to attend, he led me to jump, the posture is very stiff, the distance between can be inserted into a person. I remembered the first time we met, also at a classmate's dance. When we were both in college, we fell in love at first sight. He was as active as the Little Tigers. I was a little chubby at that time. And I happen to be.

Warm then, cold now, I pushed him away and ran out... Yu Lei caught up with me and beat his head painfully: "What's wrong with you again?"

I'm sure he has a lover. I said, are you tired, playing between lover and wife... I scold him, and love him, "you think cooking for me is love me? You think you love me because you send me flowers? What do you take me for in love? I'm not your sister, I'm your wife!"

In desperation, I did something that hurt Yu Lei. Du Ming said he wanted to send me flowers. "Do you dare to take them?" Dare! Why not? Just bring it to your house. The flower delivery lady brought flowers, just Yu Lei at home. He looked at me in surprise. "Who do you know? Flowers like this? You want a man like that?" 'Leave it alone! "I said coldly. Anyway, you already don't care, why care who sent flowers?

I have no guilt, only relief, and inner joy.

Yu Lei is always so cold, married ten years, I always take the initiative. He's probably pushing. Maybe tomorrow. It's a long day. I asked him what was wrong, and he said he was used to the single life before, not two people... "You don't have to have sex. You just have to hug." He said.

But what if there were no hugs? See "Chinese divorce", Chen Daoming played the husband, do not want to close to his wife, said he was sick. Yu Lei said the same thing. I want him to see a doctor. He promised. I've been having a hard time. Between us, always like a parasol catkin accidentally fly into the eyes, eyes raw and slightly painful.

Three years after my marriage, I had a baby. Yu Lei's face did not do a father's joy, he said you how so capricious? We're young, and when we're successful... I didn't listen to him. I want to be a mom. How many years does it take to warm a cold heart? How much tenderness? After the kids, he's still the same, going out and going in, I'm still alone. Yu Lei's sister once joked with me: "Sister, how can you come here alone? Watch out for my brother falling in love with someone else..." The little nurse also said: "You and him play the pettish, he always ignore......"

I'm tired. I also have self-respect. I let go of my love for him and accepted Duming. Every time we argue, I always ask for a divorce. We have also been to the Civil affairs Bureau, always without all the information. That quarreled with Yu Lei again, go to civil affairs bureau again in anger, Yu Lei took all data this time however. I'm even angrier about what he's trying to do. Leave!

Regret the next day, Yu Lei and I want to remarry. He said: "Don't think about it, divorce I will also be responsible for you, the family should pay the money I will pay!"

It's no different. We even live together. Utilities, telephone, Internet, house mortgage, still by him. He was good to me in everything but the love of husband and wife. I had to fall in love. I urge Du Ming to divorce, not him, I would not leave Yu Lei so soon, I hate Du Ming for delaying. In the mobile phone to call him a liar, and then scold him lovingly, about time to meet...... Yu Lei heard the whole thing. The house is so quiet, but I am like a fire, jumping around, do not know how to quiet down.

Yu Lei sometimes scold me not to contend: "WANT to find also want to find a stronger than me!" I held him weakly and pointed to his heart. "Where is your love here? Who do you give your love to?" He called me crazy.

Du Ming's wife went to the school and called me shameless for stealing her husband. But Du Ming stood by and kept silent. The woman jumped up to hit me, but someone pulled her away. It was Yu Lei. He sent me home without saying a word. I was ashamed and angry, and I kept silent. He cooked for me to eat, my hands were dirty, he gave me to wipe, like a child. I look at this man, he gives me everything, but he doesn't give me the feelings of a husband. His indifference kept me away from him, and his sense of duty and character kept me in awe.

I thought Du Ming's wife had made trouble at school, but I didn't think she would find my neighborhood. She was waiting for me to come home in the community. I was holding the child, and she rushed up... I instinctively called Yu Lei, who rushed back from work, chased the woman away, and led me and my child home in front of a crowd of onlookers. I burst into tears.

I'm calling Duming to break up. He refused, saying he was in the process and wanted me to wait. I cried with him on the phone, Yu Lei watched me cry, and watched me quiet. He was free to do his own thing. He drew the curtains for me and told me to take a nap. "I don't want such a man! You!" He's still the same, like Dad.

On another occasion, Du Ming's wife was waiting for me at the school gate. I turned back to school and called Yu Lei's cell phone. Yu Lei arrive, he grumble, "I AM TALKING ABOUT the contract, YOU LATER HAVE something don't look for me, you look for your elder brother your younger brother, THEY are taller than me, I am not your husband now......" Seeing me cry, he held my hand again: "GOOD good, go home again!"

I don't know how Duming's wife looked when she saw us going out of school together. I kept walking with my head down. Only feel out of the gate of the moment, Yu Lei suddenly gently with his hand around my waist...... This move moved me. There are many such things, I found a rule, as long as I get into trouble, Yu Lei will certainly appear.

I asked him once. You care about me, do you? Then let's get married again. But he said bitterly, "Who cares about you? I'm thinking of my child, and I want you to be safe, but you must make trouble! ' We were divorced for three years, and Yu Lei and I lived together for two and a half years. He refused to remarry, so I sold the house. Since then, they have rented separate rooms.

Duming is still pestering. He was waiting downstairs, and my child and I were afraid to go downstairs. The child called his father's phone, Yu Lei came, downstairs came the sound of fighting. The child told me, "Daddy is beating uncle..."

"Keep pestering her and I'll break your nose!" "Yelled Yu Lei.

Yulei came upstairs. His nose was bleeding. I threw myself into his arms and cried, "You clearly don't love me, why are you still working for me?" He cursed, "Who loves you? Isn't there anything you can do?"

He doesn't love me. Why can't he worry about me and the baby? He doesn't love me. Why don't I find someone good and he doesn't find someone to love?

Whether Yu Lei loves me or not, I know I love him in my heart and thank him. Thank him for always looking out for me. I recently bought a new house, which was originally near my work, but I can't bear to think that Yu Lei gave me all his property when he got divorced. We both work far away, half an hour's drive away. I gave up my house and chose a new one near his new one. I used to live in a two-bedroom room with my children, but I changed it to a three-bedroom room for Yulei. I have decided that after the house is decorated, I will make a key for Yu Lei so that he can go home and rest whenever he is tired.

I picked my child up from school in the evening, and he told me something over dinner, "Dad bought a mortgage house next to your work..."

I A STARTLED, I JUST CHANGE A ROOM IN HIS UNIT NEARBY, HOW DOES HE BUY A ROOM TO MY UNIT NEARBY? Don't think about it. Yu Lei is for the sake of me and the children. He is afraid that I will run away too much. Although I have a car now, he is used to paying, he is used to protecting us, used to keep all the dirty, tired and hard work to himself.