Caught In The Act

As much as we don’t like to admit it, relationships are crossing a difficult road today. The Cinderella and the Charming Prince are long forgotten and here we are, looking at some new species of marriages, ‘’friendships’’ and habitual living.

Cheating becomes the norm and so being a victim of it.

I must admit that Facebook pages like ‘‘Are we dating the same guy’’, or groups on Telegram and WhatsApp about relationships are confirming what I’ve already seen in many relationships.

Infidelity is here and is ..bigger than ever. But it also confirming the fact that women want to vanish their partner in public more than they want to resolve their situation.

Most of the time women are writing desperately in these groups to find some peace of mind, but all they do is reconfirm what they already knew.

Denial is a river in Egypt, your husband is cheating on you.

But talking about it is that bad? Or the fact that you won’t do anything about it makes everything look like this is a game of your ego?

It seems like the process of taking real action is delayed for some reason. Kids, job, paying the rent, my mother is in town, he is tired.

There are many reasons that you let it slip away. Because you know that there are all of these reasons you come online to the ‘‘death zone’’ where you throw away your worries or suffering and or hopes.

Letting slip away is a form of mutilation. Being superficial about it will have consequences

The storyline is the same. He comes home with some lipstick on his shirt, or he is suddenly taking a business trip with some colleagues that you didn’t knew about it. The plot is the same.

But the response has changed.

And we have all these TV shows that showed us the marks, but why do women seem to be blind to all these red flags? Why won’t they do anything for them?

This trend of crying on others shoulders is getting out of hand. Why? Because nobody does anything, they only type. Sitting in front of a laptop seems more suitable than confronting the truth. Showing the world over and over again that you are the victim of a cheating spouse.

Is this the new temptation of 2023? Creating group chats where we throw away the suffering and the hurt just because we can’t confront the truth?

Real life seems harder to handle and that is the reason why many women are looking to throw their unhappiness and such goups. As a matter of fact, I think this is happening because you don't know yourself and what you want in your life. You are always seeking guidance and directions from strangers online expect yourself.

Real life seems harder to handle and that is the reason why many women are looking to throw out their unhappiness and such groups. I think this is happening because you don't know yourself and what you want in your life. You are always seeking guidance and directions from strangers online except yourself.

My take on this will be this. Know yourself, find what are your limits, understand where in your life you want to say no and apply this in your daily tasks.

The lack of principles and values brought us here. Know yourself and what you want in your life. Stop asking the exterior for an answer. Live your life as you want and escape the illusion that ''others'' know better than you.

Own your life, your mistakes, your past, present, and future. Take responsibility for your direction in life and you will see that the results are amazing.

Want to have earlier access to this kind of articles?

Here is my weekly newsletter👇👇👇👇

❤️Claudia's Newsletter