Are Boys Exposed to Sexuality too Early?

I love Facebook!!! Let me tell you why— even through the ratchet behavior, you can actually find some real life topics that can be discussed. So of course, I’m scrolling down Facebook, and this picture caught my eye.

At first, I’m thinking, “Wow! They got that little boy around strippers. I’m surprised the adults in the picture didn’t say anything about it. Now this is where FBI agent China came in! So I found out that all of the boys in the picture was fourteen!!! I could’ve fell out!

Now I know people will always raise their children the way they want, but I was shocked. What made it more interesting was the comments made throughout the day about the strippers. And let me tell you, it was on the fence.

I couldn’t believe it! Some of these boys/men are really validating this behavior for their children. I’m not downing them on their choices because I can only raise my household. But wow!! Really?

And to my surprise, this came out on Instagram back in May, when the pandemic was happening.

Let’s keep it real and honest for once. Here’s my take on it—the Boosie situation, and the story above— why are you introducing your children to adult behavior? This is something that should be talked about when they are curious to know. You know the talk you hopefully had growing up about the birds and the bees? What in the hell happened to that? You can’t force something on somebody if they’re not ready.

I’m also mad at the females that did the act. Why are you shaking your ass in front of these little boys. Where was your integrity to at least say no that I can’t do this? Or what about the “grown” woman? I get that how you want to live is how you want to live. But what in your right mind makes you attracted to little boys? Little boys!

I guess no one has watched the movie Antwone Fisher?

So I guess people don’t remember that he was molested by his foster mother’s oldest daughter. And because of that (and being physically and emotionally abused) he lived in the streets at 14. Not only that… it caused him to have a violent temper— that even carried over into his adulthood. Remember they made him go to psychiatric treatment to calm his temper?

There are men out there that are affected by this. For example:

And I know what people may say because this was a topic discussed on top of Boosie’s decisions. “Well Dwayne Wade allowed his son to turn into a female, and everyone is fine with that.

To be honest, I would allow my son to be who he believes he’s supposed to be, but I would not allow him to have a full transformation (surgery) at twelve? That’s too young. I would personally wait until eighteen so my child can make that choice on his own. Of course, I will always support my son, but give it time. He can wear all the fancy heals and fabulous makeup all he wants! I’m here for it!

Exposing boys to sexuality early seems to have an psychological impact later in life. So to the men that believe Boosie was right? Are you sure your boys are going to be ok? To women or men that thinks that exposing boys to sexuality early— is this really fine?

Let me know your opinions on this matter.