advise for married men only

1.never have a close relationship with any Lady, single or Married By whatever name, spiritual Daughter, secretary, Colleague, Neighbor, House Maids, or Wives of Friends.

2. Never get emotionally attached to any lady other than your own legally married wife.

3. Avoid Celebrating any Woman apart from your Wife, Mother and Daughter on Social Media. Don't send wrong signals to Ladies

4. Always bear in mind that the lady who cheaply offers herself to you will offer herself to anybody and fight you dirty tomorrow.

5. Never take advantage of any Lady who is under you; don't do it; you are in a place of trust; don't destroy your life.

6. Never give financial assistance to any lady at work, in the neighbourhood or anywhere without the consent and cooperation of your wife; this will save your head in future.

7. Never meet with ladies in lonely places, parked Cars, street corners

8. Never allow your heart to lust after any lady; there is nothing they have that your wife does not have, even better with security.

9. Don't eat from ladies who consistently give you cooked food for any reason Remember, food is another way to a man's heart.

10. Put on your Wedding ring always

11. Rebuke indecent dressing and don't allow anyone to dress sexily around you; if they see you are comfortable with it, they begin to come for you.

12. If any lady is giving you signs for sex, openly rebuke her. Say no, boldly and calmly

13. Never start any dirty and naughty discussion with any lady. You can't know how far this will take you; be careful, and carry yourself with dignity.

14. Don't hide any secret from your wife. Be open this safe your head.

15. Make your wife your best friend and flaunt her anywhere and anyhow. Put her picture as a screen saver on your Phone, Laptop and tablet.

16. Celebrate your wife's birthday and wedding anniversary lavishly on Social media and everywhere; this will send signals to Girls that you love your wife and are not available for them.

17. Never hide your marital status, let them know that you are married.

18. Never use the word I love you for any Female apart from your Wife and Daughter. This can be misinterpreted

19. Always talk about your wife. It chases bad girls who want you away.

20. Your discussions about your Wife should be a positive one; never speak negatively about her or other Women.

21. If you are not enjoying your Marriage please do not share this with any Female, see a Counsellor

22. Cut all contact with all your Exes and all you’ve had sex with before Marriage. If you don't do it, you may fall back together again, destroying your Marriage and theirs.

23. Profess your love to your wife anywhere.

24. If any lady begins to come too close to you, kindly report to your wife with name, phone number and her details.

25. Be nice to female Colleagues, Church members, Neighbors etc but you must be strict and disciplined when you notice any bad move

26. Always remember that the enjoyment is just 8 Seconds; it cannot be more than that, but its repercussions can last a lifetime and even eternity; please don't mortgage your life for a Maximum of Seconds of orgasm.

27. Avoid night parties: Partying encourages sexual immorality if you truly want to be faithful to avoid night Parties.

28. Avoid Alcohol. When you drink alcohol, you look at your sense of decency with Women; please avoid Alcohol.

29. Remember sexually transmitted diseases. Sexually transmitted diseases are indeed possible when you don't keep to your Wife; don't destroy your life because of a moment of pleasure.

30. Don't Think CONDOM uses Good CONDUCT: Condom can break; it cannot even protect you from scandal, shame, reproach, broken trust and the judgement of God; good conduct is what you need, not Condoms.

31. Always Remember your vows: you promised to keep to your wife on your wedding day, so be a promise keeper and remember your Vow.

32. Avoid Night Clubs: Night Clubs are not for Men who want to keep to their Marriage Vows avoid it.

33. No Flirty Jokes: Don't crack flirty jokes with any lady, don't do it.

34. No Hugs: Avoid hugging Women carelessly; don't do it; it's not a show of love; do that through a handshake, and hug only your wife.

35. No Shoulder touch: Avoid touching Women on their Shoulders when talking to them. The shoulder is close to the breasts; the shoulder touch is also a sign of assurance of love; only your wife deserves that.

36. No private Meals: Avoid having private Lunch or dinner privately with any Lady apart from your Wife; eating together generates love and feelings; don't start the fire that will consume you.

37. No Car ride: Avoid giving private Car rides with Ladies, except in a group. Spending Hours with a Lady traffic can build affinity that can pull you down.

38. No Secret Chatting: No secret or flirty chat with any Lady.

39. No private Meeting: Never hold any meeting with any Lady that your wife must not know about

40. No Porn: Pornography can never satisfy you.