A man's moments before having an affair.

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"sure enough, he really had an affair."

It was my friend Lingling who told me as early as half a year ago that there was something wrong with her husband.

She and her husband met when they were at school and were married for three years. Now she feels that the man in front of her is a little strange, but she can't tell where the problem is.

Until once, when several classmates got together, our mutual friend suddenly asked Lingling, "Why is your husband's nearest circle of friends so strange?"

As soon as Lingling took her mobile phone, she realized that in the past few months, her husband had posted a lot of moments that were different from her previous style.

When you go out to walk the dog and tease the cat, you will send a short video.

Accompany the client to have dinner with the boss on a business trip, will send a location.

It seems that there are a lot more successful people in moments than before.

Lingling wondered that she had never seen her husband send these things before.

At this time, she woke up. It turned out that her husband had probably set up a grouping, and she happened to be the one excluded from the grouping.

Since then, she has grown a mind and began to pay attention to the whereabouts of her husband.

Once I took advantage of my mobile phone to break down and secretly took a look at my husband's mobile phone while he was in the shower.

She knew it was wrong, but if she didn't, she always had doubts and it was difficult to maintain a relationship with her husband.

She felt more and more wrong. Once her husband worked overtime in the middle of the night. When she rushed to the downstairs of her husband's office under the excuse of sending a coat, she saw something she shouldn't have seen.

That's when I found out.

He really cheated on me...

Such a reality is difficult for anyone to accept.

Lingling said she had thought about countless scenes in which her feelings were moving towards mediocrity.

But unexpectedly, when she was planning for the future, the other half who agreed to share the hardship with her, but did not know when to let go.

She can't accept it, let alone share her husband with other women.

Those moments shielded her every movement and became a sharp weapon in her chest.

It's so hard.

Later, looking back on those strange days in the same bed, Lingling told me that she had found that something was wrong with her husband for a long time.

When the two first got married, her husband was in a hurry to go home from work. Sometimes he stopped by the chestnut stall and knew that she loved to eat. He would bring her a bag of warm chestnuts.

But in less than two years, my husband began to come home late occasionally and said he was working overtime when asked.

I seldom take her out on weekends. I have a dog at home, so I have to go out for a walk.

Also suddenly began to pay attention to their appearance.

When I first got married, my husband didn't take a bath for three or four days. It was only after being abused by Lingling several times that he was reluctant to go into the bathroom.

Now it is different. He not only showers more frequently, but also arranges his hair for half a day in front of the mirror almost every time before going out.

Even posting moments has become more courteous than ever.

Only then did Lingling know that there were signs before a person changed his mind.

Those small changes in habits in life, in fact, the other side is silently talking about their own changes.

I didn't say it clearly, but it was just to save the last glimmer of decency for both sides.

Getting older to know that all the breakups are not temporary, all boredom is a river of stagnant water.

Some people go their separate ways as early as when you are at a fork in the road.

There are always so many things in life that there is nothing we can do.

But you say, in this life, who can not withstand several temptations?

Ups and downs, and which relationship will not stand the test?

As soon as you encounter temptation and test, you immediately change your mind and leave midway, which is not only a disrespect for feelings, but also an irresponsibility for each other's lives.

Speaking of which, I always think of the story of my eldest sister Yi Zhongling and her brother-in-law Sylvia in the recent hit TV drama "heirloom".

They were not in love at first sight, but more like a marriage between two families.

They respected each other at the beginning of the marriage, but they kept each other's duties to the marriage.

Yi Zhongling will take good care of Sylvien's daily life and will deal with officialdom for him.

Sylvia will protect Yi Zhongling's family. As long as his wife asks for help, most of them will respond to every request.

Many people in the barrage said that Sylvien, as a handsome, powerful and well-off man, was surrounded by beautiful women, but he coldly refused in the face of the embrace of the people around him.

He not only guarded the marriage, but also accepted his wife in distress.

In a scene in the play, Yi Zhongling's identity was exposed. When the family knew that her biological mother was an entertainer, waiting to see her joke, Sylvia did not hesitate to stand in front of his wife and safeguard his wife's dignity.

The sentence "if you don't recognize her, I will!" Let all around people impressed, but also let the wife see the responsibility of the man in front of him.

He had to ingratiate himself in the war outside, but at the bottom of his heart, he always kept his wife's safety in mind.

Nowadays, people like to say that they envy them that they used to love only one person because of their slow carriage and distant letters.

But ignored, no matter which era, love is just an instant spark, if you want to have a long marriage, you can't do without knowing each other, running in with each other, and compromising with each other.

Nowadays, although communication is developed and feelings are open, one can be responsible for a person all his life.

In the face of the world, in the face of a steady stream of temptations, people who can keep themselves are the people with great wisdom.

The precious thing in life is the one who sticks to the bottom line every temptation and firmly holds the other person's hand in every test.

Life is full of desires, and controlling desires is a person's deepest self-discipline. ???

People often say that emotion is a two-way street, if someone wants to leave early, then it is bound to be two people who will be hurt.

A few days ago, a post went viral on the Internet: the passing of the moon in Jinjiang.

She also has a lover who has known each other since she was a student, and it has been 15 years since they met and became husband and wife.

Her husband has also become the image of a handsome and valiant hero in many of her novels.

But to her surprise, when she unwittingly looked through her husband's cell phone, she knew that the other person had already had an affair.

Watching her husband and mistress talk about the boredom of marriage and emotional helplessness, she lost her mind for a moment.

Only then did I know that my husband had already accompanied the other woman to go sightseeing.

She wanted a divorce, but she didn't expect that her husband backed out during the cooling-off period of the divorce. As a last resort, they had to live a husband-and-wife life in name only.

What makes her even more sad is that now that the situation has come, her husband will still vacillate between her and the other woman.

She was desperate, and even though she still had a child in her belly, she left a "last pen letter" and chose to leave.

Despair vilified by a loved one can do great harm to a person.

Sometimes, it even deprives a person of all his desire for life.

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