9 kinds of wrong homeschooling model you can not know

The first nagging style

Reflect on yourself, do you have a nagging style? Put yourself in the right place.

Many children say that they get annoyed when they hear their parents nagging them. Please think about it, you are still annoyed by the nagging between husband and wife. A husband nags his wife and a wife nags her husband.

Nagging is one of the stupid ways to teach at home.

I hope parents will make up their minds not to nag their children.

Secondly, nagging

Nagging is also called nagging. Children are always being nagged at home: Why don't you work hard? Why don't you do your homework? Why do you only know how to play?

Scolding is a little more pernicious than nagging because it is often condemnatory.

Do away with the nagging style altogether. These are the wrong ways to poison your child, destroy his or her learning state, and extinguish the fire of motivation.

Thirdly, reprimanding

The child is always reprimanded, this is not good, and that is not right.

Fourth scolding style

The number of parents who scold is small, but the effect on children is even worse and must be abolished

Fifth standard

The child must reach the average score on the test, the ranking to get into the top, which key secondary schools, which famous universities. This is called standardized.

It is also a way of teaching that hurts your child's motivation. A motivated child will set goals for themselves, parents will be out of the child's reality of high goals imposed on the child, and the child will be very tired, adding to the child's mental burden.

Many children are very emotionally stressed before exams, why, too much pressure? If you don't put pressure on your child before the test, tell your child to just test the real results, the result may be that your child will do better and will be much better. In the face of good results children themselves may not be satisfied, feel that a few points lost too much, and are willing to continue to work hard. Parents should instead comfort their children. This is a good state.

You first set a standard for the child, so that the child is particularly nervous, and worried about not meeting the standard. When the child can not meet the standard, you will come to the nagging type, reprimand type, the effect is certainly not good.　　

Sixth fatigue type

The school engages in a sea of problems, parents, and then additional study time and learning content.

The seventh package type chaperone type

The child you are worried about him too, with endless tutoring, all day and night with the child's studies.

The eighth rush type

Keep urging your child, you should do your homework, and you should review.

Many children say, "I was ready to do my homework, but when my parents rush me, I don't want to learn.

Please be a parent experience, originally you want to do something, want to clean up the house, want to wipe the floor, or your loved one is reminded, you quickly clean up the house, and wipe the floor. You may not want to do it anymore. You would have taken the initiative to do things, would have liked to get others to appreciate things, and others a rush, you do not want to do.

Yes, what's the point of doing it under the urging of others?

The psychology of children is the same as adults, children are more tender than you, how can you bully children all day long? It's not okay.

Ninth, worrying about the child is also called worrying about the child

The face of the mother and father has the greatest influence on the child.

Please think about the way your parents treated you when you were a child. If your parents do not understand you a little, reprimand you a little, parents bitter face or parents are happy a little, have a great impact on you ah. But you are now a parent but forget this. This is very wrong!

A very good child comes home and faces a counting face, a nagging face, a reprimanding face, a scolding face, a sad face, and a rushing face, and the child fundamentally loses the joy of learning at home.

The face of a parent sometimes determines everything.