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10 Tips on how you can notice your crush...

Its a more scientific look at this age-old problem

By Go EntrepreneurPublished 4 years ago 4 min read
10 Tips on how you can notice your crush...
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How to get your crush on you noticed? That is probably one of the most common questions asked. After all, if you really like someone, but he seems barely noticeable that you exist, if you are supposed to get him to look at you, without making yourself look insane or desperate? Well, we decided to take a bit of a more scientific look at this age-old problem and here is what we found. Here are our ten, scientifically proven, ways to get your crush on you notice. To Watch this Presentation to this “special ingredient” makes your relationship his favorite hobby

1. Ignore him

It’s a scientific fact that, the more often we think about something, the more attached we become to it, so you might think our advice to ignore your crush is a little bit weird. The truth is, though, you need to get him to notice you, but also that you need to keep some mysteries about yourself. If you can do that then, slowly but surely, you will begin to gain his interest.

2. Be positive and upbeat

Studies have shown that positive people are far more attractive than negative ones. So, when everyone around you is complaining about the cold weather, you have to be someone who points out that at least it won't rain. Your upbeat, positive attitude to life is sure to get you noticed.

3. Don’t leave it all to chance

While all the best advice websites will tell you how important it is to be yourself, there is nothing wrong with a bit strategic planning to ensure that your crush notices you. Planning your work breaks to coincide with her, or going to the same place for lunch; it will all help to get you noticed. Just make sure you don't take it too far and become a stalker!

4. Wear a red dress

There have been many studies that have proven that men find red an attractive color. Red makes it seem like you’re getting hotter, more approachable and sexier, so break red dresses, red handbags and red lipstick. Even a splash of red in your outfit will get her attention and make you stand out from everyone else.

5. Appeal to his sense of smell

While using pheromones to trap a man would be a bit controversial, using a signature scent will help get you noticed. Do not overdo the scent, because man does not like that, but a subtle fragrance that he can identify with you will have his head turning towards you every time you enter the room.

6. Go natural

You should always wear makeup that you feel confident in and that you like, but surveys have suggested that men prefer women to wear less makeup, rather than more. The trick here seems to be to keep it looking natural. It's the whole face of heavy looking makeup that seems to put some people off.

7. Be nice and be kind

It should come as no surprise to everyone that men are attracted to nice women, so keep your temper when something goes wrong and your crush is watching you. Don't let him catch you running with other people down or gossiping. Let him see you helping other people and hear you saying kind of things about people. You don't have to be an overnight saint, let the better part of your nature shine through, especially when you know your crush is near.

8. Look after your hair

In another survey, it was found that a woman's hair is one of the first things men notice. Bad hair day is apart, which can happen to anyone, make the most of your hair and keep it well groomed. There's no need to be hair obsessed, just for someone's sake, but clean, shiny locks will definitely help you get noticed.

9. Smile and laugh

This one goes along with being positive and being nice to score. Basically, people want to be around people who think they make you feel good, so a smile is going to make you a lot more attractive. Also, be sure to laugh at your crush's jokes, because a shared sense of humor is a good sign of compatibility.

10. Flirt

And finally, if you want your crush on what you noticed, you can always resort to a bit of harmless flirting. The subtle approach is the most effective one here. Let your eyes linger on her for only a second or two longer when you talk to her, or touch her arms with your hands when you share a joke with her. Don't be openly sexual about it, because that might scare him off. You just need enough to tell him that you really don't mind at all if the two of you were to get to know each other a little better.

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