Why Group Assignments Aren’t Teamwork—They’re Emotional Roulette

Group assignments are framed as exercises in collaboration, communication, and professional development. But for anyone who's ever been stuck doing all the work while teammates coast, they often feel like emotional roulette. You spin the wheel at the start of semester and hope for competent, engaged peers—only to end up ghosted in a shared document full of placeholder text. What's billed as a simulation of the "real world" ends up reinforcing the worst parts of it: uneven workload, misaligned values, and silence from the people who benefit most from your effort.

The Ideal vs. The Reality

Group work is often introduced as a way to develop critical professional skills—team collaboration, shared responsibility, and time management. On paper, the intent is sound. In practice, however, the experience rarely matches the objective.

The reality for many students is that group projects become a gamble. Some participants are proactive, but others contribute minimally or not at all. Communication breaks down. Tasks go unfinished or are submitted at the last minute. The result is a lopsided effort, often rescued by one or two individuals who absorb the stress and take responsibility for the outcome.

Instead of learning teamwork, the lesson becomes how to work around absence, compensate for silence, and salvage marks in the face of disengagement. It's not collaboration—it's triage.

The Emotional Toll of Carrying the Dead Weight

There's a particular kind of exhaustion that comes from being the only one who takes a group assignment seriously. It's not just the added workload—it's the stress of knowing the success or failure of the task may rest entirely on your shoulders. It's the slow burn of watching deadlines creep closer while your messages go unanswered. It's the frustration of rewriting messy submissions because they bear your name too.

For students who care about quality, structure, and professional integrity, this dynamic becomes more than a scheduling issue—it becomes emotional labor. It's the mental fatigue of having to lead by default, to coordinate without authority, and to maintain standards in an environment where doing so is optional for everyone else.

Over time, this pattern creates a quiet disillusionment. Not just with peers, but with the process itself. When effort isn't reflected in the outcome—when participation has no measurable impact on the mark—it starts to feel like the system rewards passivity and penalises personal investment.

Why the System is Broken

At its core, the group assignment model relies on an assumption of balance—that all students will contribute equally, communicate effectively, and share responsibility for the outcome. But in practice, these assumptions often collapse under the weight of uneven motivation, inconsistent skill levels, and external pressures that affect individual capacity.

What's most concerning isn't just the imbalance—it's how often the system fails to correct for it. Shared marks, vague participation tracking, and a lack of peer accountability tools mean that group work can be completed with minimal input from half the team. Meanwhile, those who take initiative are left to fill the gaps, often without recognition.

The justification is usually framed as a "preparation for industry", but this raises an important question: what kind of industry are we preparing students for? In most real-world teams, lack of contribution leads to consequences—missed deadlines, performance reviews, restructuring, demotion. In contrast, group assignments often teach that being passive still leads to reward, and that speaking up about imbalance is more trouble than it's worth.

This creates poor habits. Not just for students who disengage, but also for those who learn to keep quiet and compensate for others. It reinforces a culture of quiet tolerance over honest accountability—hardly the foundation of effective teamwork.

Reclaiming Control (and Sanity)

When group dynamics spiral, it's tempting to check out entirely. To do the bare minimum, protect your mental health, and let the chips fall where they may. But for those who take pride in their work, disengagement often feels worse than overextension.

The real challenge is learning where to draw the line. That might mean setting firm boundaries on what you're willing to do—or refusing to absorb what belongs to others. It might mean documenting your contributions clearly, communicating directly, and letting go of outcomes beyond your control.

Most importantly, it means recognising that your value doesn't diminish just because others don't match it. Systems may be flawed, but personal standards can remain intact. There is power in continuing to care—not because others deserve it, but because you do.

And if nothing else, group work can become a kind of compass. It shows you where you thrive, what you're willing to tolerate, and who you never want to collaborate with again.

What the Rubric Doesn't Measure

Some lessons at university aren't written into the curriculum. They're learned in group chats, late-night edits, and the quiet gap between effort and recognition. Group work, for all its flaws, reveals something lasting—not just about others, but about ourselves.

We learn patience, limits, communication, and compromise. We learn how to move forward without closure, how to speak up without blowing up, and how to step back without giving up. And we learn that sometimes, the best growth comes from knowing when to stop carrying what was never yours to hold.

"When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves." - Viktor E. Frankl

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