When A Guy Ignores You But Likes You



Hey,

It’s Mehul.

I don’t know your exact story.

But if you're here, reading this, it probably hurts right now.

You’re confused.

He liked you. He showed you that he did.

But now he’s ignoring you… and you don’t understand why.

It’s like something inside you is screaming for clarity, but all you get is silence.

And let me say this first — you are not crazy for feeling this way.

And no, it’s not “too much” to want a little consistency.

You deserve love that doesn't make you question your worth every night before bed.

When a Man Pulls Away, It’s Rarely About You

I know how cruel it feels when a guy goes quiet.

And yet… you know there’s something there. The way he looked at you. How he listened. The way he opened up, even just a little.

That wasn’t fake.

But now — he disappears. Messages get shorter. Calls fade. His energy shifts.

And you’re left replaying everything, wondering:

Did I do something wrong? Was I too available? Too emotional? Too much?

Please hear me.

When a man ignores you but still likes you, it’s often because he’s battling something within himself — not because you weren’t enough.

Some men retreat when they feel emotions they can’t control.

Some feel vulnerable and panic.

Some are terrified of the depth they feel with you… because it awakens wounds they've buried for years.

They were taught to hide emotion, not navigate it.

So when it shows up — especially in the form of a real woman like you — they run.

But His Silence Is Not Your Cue to Shrink

Don’t take his distance as a sign to dim your light.

Don't start acting "less interested" or play games just to mirror his coldness.

You are allowed to want clarity. You are allowed to need consistency.

You are allowed to say, “This hurts.”

You don’t have to prove your worth by waiting in silence.

Sometimes, the bravest thing you can do is not chase, not beg, and not break your own heart trying to win someone who isn’t showing up.

He Might Like You… But That’s Not the Same as Being Ready for You

And here’s the hard truth —

A man can like you, want you, even love you… and still not be ready to meet you in the way your soul needs.

Some men will leave you starving while claiming they care.

But real care doesn't leave you anxious, confused, and in the dark.

Love is not silent when you need reassurance.

Love does not make you feel invisible when you’re giving your whole heart.

So yes, he may like you — but what matters more is: How is he treating you in the silence?

If he truly cares, he’ll circle back with honesty.

But if his silence is becoming a pattern — please don't spend your days decoding his absence like it's a puzzle you need to solve.

You're Not Meant to Chase Clarity in Confusion

I know this is hard.

I know the waiting feels endless.

But trust me — a man who values you won’t let you stay stuck in confusion.

He will find a way to show up, even if it's messy, even if he’s scared.

Because the right man doesn’t ignore what he treasures.

So don’t beg for answers from silence.

Don’t shrink your heart to fit into a space that was never built to hold you.

You are not a maybe. You are not a "someday".

You are not a second thought.

You are a woman worthy of consistent, clear, and courageous love.

Want to Understand What Men Are Really Thinking?

If you're tired of these mixed signals…

If you're exhausted trying to decode his actions and need to understand the deeper emotional triggers that make men act distant even when they care…

I found something that helped a close friend of mine finally understand the why behind a man’s silence.

It’s called His Secret Obsession.

It’s not just another relationship theory — it’s a powerful guide that helps women understand what truly makes a man feel emotionally safe, seen, and deeply connected.

If you’re ready to stop chasing and start attracting the kind of love you deserve, I recommend giving it a look.

Because sometimes, the missing piece isn’t you —

It’s just understanding how men are wired in ways no one ever taught us.

You’re Going to Be Okay — Even If He Doesn’t Come Back

One last thing.

If he stays silent forever… that doesn't define your worth.

His silence will never outweigh your softness. His confusion will never drown your clarity.

You are already enough — even if he never comes back to say it.

And when you're ready… read my next letter to you: How to Make Him Obsessed with You in a Long Distance Relationship — Without Losing Your Soul

Hold on, sis.

You’re stronger than this silence.

And you’re never alone.

— Mehul 💙