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Why education is source of stress, anxiety and depression and who is responsible for it students, parents or educational systems.
Title: Rethinking Success: A Journey Through Pressure, Passion, and Purpose
In today's fast-paced, competitive world, the definition of success has become dangerously narrow. Most people are led to believe that high grades, prestigious degrees, and stable jobs are the only markers of a meaningful life. This mindset, deeply rooted in the rigid education system, often overlooks individual creativity, emotional well-being, and personal passion.
From an early age, students are placed on an assembly line of performance. They are taught what to learn, but rarely why. The system encourages rote memorization over understanding, standardization over curiosity. In such an environment, true learning becomes secondary. The pressure to outperform peers becomes the dominant force, overshadowing natural growth and intellectual exploration.
This kind of mental pressure has very real consequences. Behind every report card lies a silent battle — anxiety, fear of failure, even identity crises. Many students begin to measure their worth based on numbers: marks, ranks, salaries. The joy of learning fades away, replaced by the burden of expectation. The emotional toll it takes is immense, and sadly, often invisible.
One of the most crucial ideas that needs to be revisited is the difference between success and excellence. Success, as society defines it, is often tied to external rewards — a big job title, a large paycheck, social validation. Excellence, however, is internal. It comes from doing something with dedication, curiosity, and love. When someone pursues excellence in their field — whether it's engineering or photography, medicine or music — success eventually follows. But when success becomes the only goal, the path becomes hollow.
Another deeply personal struggle many face is choosing between passion and pressure. It’s not uncommon for individuals to find themselves in careers they never wanted, simply because it was the “safe” or “respectable” choice. Dreams are quietly buried to make room for what’s expected. But a life lived without passion feels like a task, not a journey. There comes a time when one must ask: Whose dreams am I living?
Breaking away from this cycle requires courage — and often, support. The role of friendship and encouragement is underestimated in personal growth. When you're surrounded by people who understand you, who don’t judge your choices but rather celebrate them, you begin to believe in yourself. Sometimes, it takes just one person to say, “It’s okay to be different,” for someone to reclaim their own path.
And then there's the power of hope. Life is unpredictable. Failure happens. Plans fall apart. But holding onto a small voice inside that says “keep going” can make all the difference. A calm mindset, even in the face of chaos, can be the most powerful tool one has. It’s not about pretending things are fine — it’s about facing them with resilience.
In the end, what matters is not what the world expects from you, but what you expect from life. When choices align with inner calling, when learning is driven by curiosity, and when success is redefined by personal joy — that’s where true fulfillment begins.
Its an humble request to all parents never emphasis your child for competition, at any aspect of life. Don't let them only to focus on success, wealth and status. Give priority to excellence . because, wealth, status and success can compromise except excellence. Excellence is generated by different talent or interest which is naturally build in human. So, never bother if your child is weak in education, he might be sharp at any other aspect of life which might lead him to bright future.


Comments (2)
A person's mindset is largely shaped by the demands of society. In our society, money is given high value, while talent or excellence is not truly appreciated. Just look at our lives—there are countless famous actors we know, but how many renowned scientists can we name? Only a few. When society starts valuing excellence, talent, and skills more than money, only then will people begin to understand that true worth also lies in talent ..not just wealth.
You really nailed it about how the education system messes with our idea of success. I've seen so many young people stressed out over grades instead of being excited about learning. It's sad. And that part about choosing between passion and pressure? I know folks who've given up their dreams for a "safe" job. How can we encourage more people to follow their passion without sacrificing financial stability?