Unlock the Secret to Clear Decisions: Trust Your Vibrational Meter!

Unlock the Secret to Clear Decisions: Trust Your Vibrational Meter

Discover the Power of Your Emotional Guidance System to Make Clear, Confident Decisions and Transform Your Life

Do you ever feel stuck? Immobilized, paralyzed, or completely unsure of what step to take next? You are not alone. Many experience this frustrating state, especially at times when life-changing decisions lie ahead. I have been in that place too.

I recall, several years ago, I found myself with a major business decision that on paper seemed perfect: it was a great opportunity and fit well within my skill set. Yet, on some level, something felt wrong. I wrote it off as stress or overthinking. However, the more time that passed from days to weeks, my unease began to grow.

I took time off, expecting clarity. Two weeks spent away from the chaos of decision-making did not help; I still felt confused and frustrated. I tried everything within my rational mind to figure out which was the "right" answer. I felt stuck completely.

A New Framework for Decision-Making

In desperation, I fled to a local resort hoping to find solitude that would help me find answers. After two days of journaling, meditation, and long walks, I was still just as lost. One night, after midnight, feeling utterly defeated, I wrote in my notebook:

I need a new framework; a completely new way of looking at my life and making decisions.

The following morning brought the breakthrough. I played some cassette tape that a friend had sent to me. The sound was scratchy, but the message was crystal clear:

"You have within you a vibrational meter that informs you of what is good for you and what is not. It is your emotions. If it feels good, it is good for you; if it feels bad, it's not."

This was my "aha" moment. My feelings were my compass, and my emotions were my guide. I came to understand that I'd been putting logic and external opinions ahead of my feelings. That business opportunity? It didn't feel right to me. The discomfort wasn't stress; it was a red flag, indicating the direction was not right.

The Relief of Clarity

With this new point of view, I was able to finally let go of the business proposal. Instantly I felt a wave of relief and peace. For the first time in weeks, I was clear. No longer did I think about what I wanted not to happen; I now was thinking about what I did want.

I wrote a list of qualities desired in a business partnership: mutual respect, shared vision, creative synergy, and ease of collaboration. Amazingly, within a few days, I met someone who perfectly aligned with the list. That person is my current business partner, and the relationship has been a source of success and joy.

This experience taught me that life is much easier when you trust your emotions. Your vibrational meter is always working, always guiding you to that which feels good and away from that which doesn't.

How to Use Your Vibrational Meter

You can tap into this powerful tool to make decisions with clarity and confidence as well. Here's how:

1. Tune into Your Emotions
When faced with a decision, take a moment to check in with your feelings. Does the situation excite you, or does it leave you feeling uneasy? Trust those initial reactions—they’re your inner guidance system speaking to you.

2. Identify the Energy
Notice how your body feels. Heavy, tense, or anxious feelings often mean you're resisting or not in alignment. Conversely, light, expansive, or joyful feelings mean you're in a good alignment.

3. Bring Your Attention to What You Want
If something doesn't feel good, then that is a sign to stop and evaluate. Write down what you want to create. Be as detailed as possible. The more detail the more aligned you will be to opportunities which resonate better.

4. Stop Overthinking
For many, it's trying to justify or make sense of our choices. Your vibrational meter does not need your justification. Trust it.

5. Align Daily
Take some time every day doing things that feel good. This raises your vibration and allows you to attract people, opportunities, and experiences that match your desires easily.

Since embracing this framework, my life has changed. I don't waste energy overanalyzing or second-guessing myself anymore. Instead, I trust my feelings to guide me toward what feels right. Decisions that once felt overwhelming now feel effortless. You have this power within you, too. Your emotions are not just fleeting reactions—they are a built-in compass pointing you toward the life you're meant to live.

Your Call to Action

Take a moment right now to reflect on an area of your life where you feel stuck. Write down the decision you’re grappling with. Then, ask yourself:

- Does this feel good?
- Does it feel bad?
- What do I truly want instead?

Let yourself rely on your vibrational meter as much as possible. When you do so, you will find it clearly flowing in every aspect of life - easy and in alignment.

Second-guessing time is up and time to trust in yourself again. Take the first step now. Just let your life change.