Uncovering secret causality in Life

A netizen from Wuhan talked about a time he saw fortune telling. He was waiting in line at the home of a famous local fortune teller when he saw a middle-aged woman telling fortune. Her man is in prison and she wants a divorce. The reason why this man is imprisoned is for taking bribes, and the number is not small. But according to the woman, she didn't see a penny and gave it all to a few lovers of the man. Later, due to the uneven distribution of spoils among several lovers, a disfavored lover sued this man, but unexpectedly he fell.

This woman has been filled with resentment and chatter during fortune telling. But the fortune teller interrupted her and said, "You don't have to be so angry. You've already had someone outside, and there's more than one." All the people around were stunned, and the woman also stayed for a while, explaining, "There's only one person who really has feelings." The fortune teller said, "I only said that you have someone outside, not the person who communicates with you."

One's own mistakes can be indulgent, ignored, and forgiven infinitely; The fault of others is the sand that falls into their eyes and the thorns stuck in their flesh, which cannot be tolerated for a moment. Can you compare yourself to others and think from different perspectives? Can we forgive others with the heart of blaming others and the heart of forgiving ourselves?

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A few years ago, when I was posting about traditional culture on an online forum, a netizen who was studying fortune telling knew that I also knew a little bit of Chinese characters, so he came to me to discuss his destiny. I infer that he has been facing many pressures and difficulties in his recent life, which are caused by his own personality. He replied that his personality is very good and he is a good person, and his current life difficulties have nothing to do with it. I calmly explained my inference method and theoretical basis to him, and wrote it in detail.

He studied another school of numerology theory, which was not very consistent with what I had learned, so he immediately refuted me. In his reply, seeing that he was quite emotional, I didn't respond again. Based on my experience, when encountering such situations during the process of posting, the best way is to handle them coldly, otherwise the arguments will be endless. But he still pursued me relentlessly for several days, saying anything unpleasant. He choked on anyone who advised him, and he replied to dozens of posts back and forth, expressing his anger.

I calculated eight characters for him out of kindness, and he can be so extreme and easily angered. Think about his mentality, who can get along well with, and why not be down and out? With such obvious personality issues, he doesn't think he has any fault. Why don't you just reflect on yourself?

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That day, due to a friend's introduction, a woman approached me to show her the eight characters. Looking at her destiny chart, with a golden fate and a strong physique, she must be a type of impatient, strong, and self centered personality. Based on her personality and fortune, it is inferred that her marriage will inevitably be full of troubles and dangers. A woman's personality is too aggressive and powerful, and there are few who have a happy marriage. In addition, fate is not conducive to relationships, which is undoubtedly true.

From this, I suggest that she start with her personality and change her temper in order to possibly change her marital status. Otherwise, she won't be able to be happy with either one. Smart women always know how to soften hardness. The principle of same-sex repulsion and opposite sex attraction is eternal and unchanging. If two people are both strong, just like the same side of a magnet, it cannot come together in any case.

Later on, when we talked, she said she had always wanted a divorce. Both husband and wife are uncompromising individuals who cannot survive. They have been married for seven years and have been arguing for seven years. And she said that her bad temper came from her mother's womb and cannot be changed. Besides, she's also right. What did I do wrong? "She repeated

Seeing her leaving behind, I deeply sighed. Holding onto the phrase 'I can't change my temper' and saying 'What did I do wrong' can ruin a lifetime of happiness and all hope.

Note:

In the process of calculating the eight characters for people, one can often see the root cause of fate in a single sentence. Many tragedies are actually caused by oneself. Nature determines fate, cause and effect shape life. If it weren't for this kind of person, it wouldn't be this fate. As long as one can objectively reflect on oneself and have the courage to turn evil into good, anything can be changed. How many people can look back at their own photos and see their own problems? I am always right, it's all someone else's fault. Looking back, did you really never miss it?