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The Hidden Struggles of Being a Female Student

Navigating the Challenges of Studying and Fending for Myself

By Ibisanmi PeacePublished 2 years ago 3 min read
The Hidden Struggles of Being a Female Student
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Introduction

It is not simple to be a student. The difficulties can seem insurmountable, from juggling social responsibilities to managing academics. But I've come to understand that my challenges as a female student go beyond the classroom. I'll go into the challenges I face as a female student in this personal account, highlighting how challenging it can be to study and support oneself.

The road to success can frequently seem steep due to the expectations placed on women and the engrained biases in our society. Through sharing my own experiences, I wish to bring attention to these unseen hardships and encourage others to acknowledge and address the particular difficulties that female students encounter.

Navigating Gender Expectations

The demands of society might be a heavy load for me as a female student. I'm frequently expected to conform to gender norms in addition to performing academically well. The strain of having to live up to these standards can be oppressive, and it frequently leaves little opportunity for one's own development and self-discovery.

Furthermore, these gender norms may bleed into the classroom, influencing how I'm viewed and assessed. It is depressing to see the subtle biases that can exist, with male students receiving credit for their aggressiveness and female students receiving criticism for their aggressive behavior. My confidence may be hampered by these biases, and it may be more difficult for me to be heard in academic contexts.

Despite these difficulties, I've figured out how to use my annoyance as motivation for change. I want to establish an environment where all kids, regardless of gender, may succeed academically and personally by questioning social norms and fighting for gender equality.

The Dangers of Self-Reliance

One of the biggest difficulties I experience as a female student is having to rely on myself. Independence is a useful trait, but it also has its drawbacks. It can be difficult to find time for self-care and mental health when juggling coursework, extracurricular activities, and personal obligations.

Furthermore, the pressure to be independent might make one feel alone and make one afraid to ask for support. Society frequently presents a picture of a strong, independent woman who is capable of handling any situation. But in actuality, we all occasionally require support. It's critical to understand that asking for help does not indicate weakness, but rather strength and resolve.

We can destroy the idea that success must be attained on our own by creating a supportive environment and promoting open communication. Together, we can support and encourage one another, making sure that no student—regardless of gender—has to face the difficulties of adolescence alone.

Overcoming Obstacles and Dispelling Stereotypes

I work hard as a female student to dispel preconceptions and break down barriers that hold back our potential. Pursuing my passions can occasionally feel like an uphill battle in a world where women are still underrepresented in several professions. But I won't allow conventional norms to stand in the way of my goals.

I want to encourage other female students to achieve the same by questioning the existing quo and enjoying my own special journey. Together, we can change the story and define success according to our own standards. We have the ability to determine our own futures, whether that means achieving success in STEM subjects or pursuing occupations that are often held by men.

I am confident that we can break down the hurdles preventing us from succeeding and build a more inclusive and equal educational environment for future generations of female students.

In summary

The difficulties I have as a female student stretch far beyond the classroom. Although navigating societal norms and the dangers of independence might be challenging, I refuse to allow these challenges define who I am. We can establish a setting where all students, regardless of gender, may thrive and prosper by addressing these unseen obstacles and encouraging a caring community.

As I move further in my studies, I want to motivate people to understand and overcome the particular difficulties that female students encounter. Together, we can dispel myths, remove obstacles, and build a world where every kid has the same chance to achieve their goals.

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