Online Presence

Online Presence

Different Perspectives

Digital life.

Digital money.

Digital fame.

Digital views.

It surrounds us.

We scroll.

We learn.

We are blinded.

What does it take to go viral?

What is your personal limit?

How far will you go?

What is your niche and why?

Why does any of this matter?

Talent… or no talent at all?

Why are you here?

So many questions to think about while you’re creating an online presence.

There’s now an expression: organic growth.

But what does that even mean anymore?

If my channel is wholesome and holistic, how would it look if I paid hundreds of dollars for 100,000 views and likes? Does it make me better than you, worse than you, or are we all just part of the same illusion?

Going Back in Time

Let’s go back for a moment—back in time.

Down the H2 rabbit hole, as you already know.

Different conversations over the years.

Consistent discussions about how humans, especially during COVID lockdown, craved connection.

We can’t thrive alone.

We need connection.

But we’ve become so fragile. In many ways we’ve become incapable of creating or maintaining new relationships or friendships. We’ve lost what it is to truly connect with others.

And having a presence online doesn’t mean your growth is promised instantly.

Everything takes time.

Everything takes patience.

Everything takes dedication to what you’re molding in cyberspace.

Your Space, Your Voice

What do you like?

What is your niche?

In cyberspace, you have the power to create your own name—make it whatever you want.

Take time to outline your plan.

The moment you create an account, this can turn into your business.

You are the business.

You are the product.

You are the vision.

So what exactly are you trying to communicate to people of different places, cultures, and ages?

Where My Online Story Started

When I entered this world for the first time, it was during COVID. I remember seeing so many women feeling down… almost like they lost that spark of what it feels like to be girly again—feminine.

I was in that same boat.

As a feminine woman, when you lose that part of yourself, things don’t feel too good. It’s our essence. It’s what makes us soft, and what gives us power too.

Men can’t relate to this at all.

What it means for a woman to put on lipstick, a cute dress, to blow-dry and style her hair (which, honestly—mine takes hours)… and now, doing all of that to see the look on my husband’s face when he comes home from work?

His face lights up.

He smiles.

And it’s one of the best feelings in the world.

I took it upon myself to sell fashion jewelry. And even if it wasn’t the cure for everything, it brought so much joy to women of all ages. To me as well.

Years later… here I am.

Creating content with no online marketing background or degree.

I don’t have experience in this world, but I’m still here.

One of the best compliments I receive—over and over—is that my content is real. Genuine.

That’s something I can be.

I don’t necessarily have an expertise.

If I had a degree in something specific, sure, I’d create more educational content.

But what I do have is fun.

And my niche is whatever I make it.

I can be sentimental.

I can be funny.

I can be inspirational.

I can be an online brand ambassador.

It’s literally whatever I choose.

Limits & Boundaries

Online or offline, everything has limits.

Your limits depend on what you’re uncomfortable doing—maybe because of work or your personal comfort zone.

Once you know your boundaries, the sky is the limit.

Ideas for Creating Your Space

If you're figuring out where to start:

Do you like to read? Create content about books you love.

Do you like to dance? Teach others online. Make a teaser video. Host one-on-one Zoom classes. That can be a business from home.

Do you like to write? It helps relax your thoughts. Start a blog or make a video promoting it.

Are you fluent in another language? Share the details of how and why certain expressions exist.

Do you love to travel? (I dream of traveling fearlessly and seeing different places.) If you do too, make content wherever you go. Record little videos—don’t forget to enjoy your time.

They say, “The world is your oyster.”

Cyberspace can be your oyster too.

Your content may inspire others more than you realize.

And chances are, you’ll be just as interested in rewatching your own masterpieces.

Have you figured out your niche and your boundaries?

Leave your answer in the comments.

With love,

H2