How to read life, read life, read society?

Reading Life and Society This big book is just a metaphor, life and society unfold before our eyes at any time, but it is not a book, so how to read it? I also started to think about this matter, and have a few ideas. I hope that through the exchange and discussion with you, I can gain some results:

People used to say, what to see what in my heart, if not in his heart, so are the tour, turn a blind eye, even saw the leave deep impression, so to read a good life, society, this big book of life, the first thing to heart, to set up the correct through, have the right attitude to life and life attitude, want to have a love of life, to have the curiosity of people, We should have a genuine heart for ourselves and others, have social feelings and a sense of social responsibility, be able to move from selfishness to selflessness, care about the common problems facing mankind and the development of society, and be willing to make contributions to society and contribute our strength. Without such a mindset and pattern, we cannot read the big book of life, life and society.

To read a good life, life, society this big book, first of all to open their heart, have a certain amount of confidence in themselves, to others, to the society have a certain amount of trust, can be divided into two look at themselves, look at others, look at the society; To look from the perspective of individual and family to live, to society, give full play to the body and the power of perception, establish connection with life, in action into life, into the social activities, work and communicate with others, travelling, doing all sorts of meaningful things, establish connection with others and to better understand the society, Only in this way can we truly read the great book of society.

Life and have a lot of phenomena and events in the society, some phenomena and events have the value of research, society is a concept, we only by studying the various specific phenomena and events to grasp the knowledge from the whole society, choose a life phenomenon and social phenomenon of continuous observation and thinking, communicating with others and communication, Judge whether this phenomenon is universal, is the phenomenon of social life, or personal subjective phenomenon, such as the personal nature of interpersonal relations, in the past acquaintance society, people in small counties and cities mostly know each other or are familiar with each other, want to do things through several people can always reach a relationship. In big cities, there is frequent movement of people, and the relationship between people is estranged. It is more of a formal relationship of work nature than a private one. Is this a common phenomenon or a personal phenomenon observed due to personal personality and attitude? For meaningful phenomena and events can be continued in-depth observation and analysis, from the phenomenon of expanded into other phenomena associated with it, and analyzes the relationship between these phenomena and events and influence each other, and so on, choose to do some meaningful things, personally into among them, to feel and experience this phenomenon, explore it, step by step, feeling the stones across the river, Proceed by groping.

Society is composed of an individual, a variety of social phenomenon of people and events and these phenomena have close relations, and a variety of different people, to understand others in work and life, sincere care for others, the heart of others, mutual communication exchange views to share their experiences, and the interaction of others is a kind of practice, In the interaction can improve their understanding of others, the observation of the society, can improve their communication and interpersonal relationship processing ability, improve their emotional intelligence, that is, to read the social life and life, but also improve their achievements, in order to really do a good job in psychological counseling, better help others.

From the way that already knows unceasingly diligently, unceasingly explores, we can get new idea and inspiration, truly learns to read life, read life, read society.