How to Know If a Guy Likes You in School

School can be a confusing place when it comes to emotions. There are tests, peer pressure, expectations—and then there are crushes. If you're wondering whether that one guy you secretly like feels the same, you're not alone. Sometimes, the signs are hidden in plain sight. You just need to know what to look for.

Let’s decode those confusing signals, so you don’t waste your time—or your heart.

1. He Notices the Little Things About You

If a guy remembers the color of your notebook, the way you laugh, or the exact day you had a math test, it's not random. Most boys don’t pay attention to these things unless they genuinely care. It might mean he’s been watching you in ways that go beyond friendship.

2. His Body Language Talks Before He Does

When he’s around you, does he:

Sit up straighter?

Fix his hair or adjust his shirt?

Mirror your movements without realizing it?

These are all signs of subconscious attraction. A guy who likes you will want to look good and match your energy. Watch for those micro-movements.

3. He Finds Reasons to Be Near You

Does he always end up in your group during projects? Or somehow walks the same hallway at the same time? When a guy likes you in school, he’ll find excuses to be around you—even if it’s just borrowing a pen or asking about homework.

Sometimes, he may even act annoyed or tease you lightly. That’s not immaturity—it’s nervous energy.

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4. His Friends Act Weird Around You

Boys often confide in their friends when they like someone. So, if his group giggles, nudges him, or gets awkward when you're around, they probably know something you don’t. Watch their reactions—they can be a dead giveaway.

5. He Tries to Impress You (Without Being Obvious)

Maybe he suddenly starts answering more in class, cracking jokes when you're nearby, or showing off talents you didn’t know he had—like drawing, singing, or even solving math problems like a pro. If he’s subtly trying to be his best self around you, chances are he wants you to notice him too.

6. He Remembers What Matters to You

Did you once mention you're nervous about the school play—and he wishes you good luck out of nowhere? Or maybe he brings up a random detail you told him weeks ago. That’s not normal “classmate behavior.” That’s a sign he’s paying attention because you matter to him.

But Wait... What If He’s Giving Mixed Signals?

Attraction during school years can be messy. Boys sometimes pull away even when they like you. Why? Fear of rejection. Social pressure. Or simply confusion about their own emotions.

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Final Thoughts: Listen to Your Gut

Sometimes, you already know the answer—you’re just afraid to trust it. If a guy treats you with kindness, respects your space, and consistently shows up (even in subtle ways), he probably likes you more than he’s letting on.

Don't chase. Observe.

And if you're ever confused, remember: A guy who likes you will show up, not just show off.

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