How do you fight for your husband and get him to stop seeling mistress? He doesn't want divorce and I can't afford a divorce.

Better to eat poorly and be happier for your sake as well as the children. A small apartment filled with hapiness, not bitterness, is so much better than any house regardless of what you can buy by trying to stay in a sham of a marriage.

Show your children a strong independent life staying together means it's this woman now, and it's a different woman later. Trust me in this. Your children are learning things you don't even realize. do you want your daugther to choose this type of man?. Do you want your son to be irresponsible?.

You cannot know what you cannot know. Your decision now may be taken out of your hands later. He may leave sometimes anyway. Be strong. Make your life what it should be now without him. There are social programs in your town to assist you.

Get acquainted with them, your biggest responsibilities now are your children. Show them resilence, strength and humor in the face of whathever despereration you feel. Those are skills they need to learn for life in general.

Good luck prepare to be happy again, like before you met the man who decided that marriage didn't mean being true to you.

3 WAYS TO DESTROY YOUR HUSBAND'S MISTRESS.

Finding out your husband has been unfaithful to you is a slap on the face, It hurts so much that so many women are oushed to do dreadful things. According to the five steps of grief, anger usually sets in immediately after denial. So, don't feel guilty if you feel like going full-on .

A the stage of anger, thoughts of revenge against the object of hurt usually kicks in, and as a wife, it's easy to start thinking of ways to make "soon to be ex-husband and his mistress pay if this is you, I think it's safe to say you're not alone.

As a wife and mother, I can fully relate to the desire for revenge, the good news is there are ways you can bring these vengeful fantasies to life without breaking the law, If you're interested, sit tight and I'll take you through 23 ways you can destroy your husband's mistress.

1 .Don't get caught.

Planning to revenge mission then ending up in prison for it would a disaster, It would be completely ounter-produtive. Whatever you do don't go overboard and do something illegal, like kidnap her or worse murder her.

Stay on the lighter path, plan things that are legal yet satisfying to you. and hurtful to your husband's mistress. Remember, your motive is to hurt this mistress emotionally and not physially, so whatever you do, don't get caught breaking the law.

2. Have a heart to heart with your husband.

Even though your husband has shattered your heart into a thousand piees, he's still your husband (unless you've deided to make him your ex-husband). You both need to sit down and talk about everything, why he hoose to disrespet you and cheat on you., what he thought he was missing that you couldn't give to him and how to deal with things moving forward.

If your husband is genuinely sorry about how he sabotaged the marriage and is willing to work through it with you, then you both can plan your healing proess together.

3. Win back your husband

Whether it was a fling or a quarter life crisis for your husband, he may have developed some type of emotional attachements to his mistress, even those feelings may not be love. If your husband is repentant and ready to make things work between both of you, then do your best to win him back.

If you're the kind of wife that won't to lose your husband to someone else, then inspire him to direct those feelings to you so you can both be as happy as you were before, or even closer.