He Pulls Away, You Break Inside – Read This Before You Text Him Again

When You’re Tired of Trying and Still Feel Unseen — Read This, Sister

Hey,

I don’t know how you found your way to this page. Maybe it was late at night, and you were scrolling with tears in your eyes. Maybe you just needed someone—anyone—to tell you that you’re not crazy for feeling everything so deeply. However you got here, I’m glad you did.

Let me tell you something that most people won’t:

You are not too much.

You are not too emotional.

And you are not wrong for wanting to feel loved, chosen, and safe.

I’m Mehul. Not a coach. Not a guru. Just a guy who’s seen both sides of love—the kind that lifts you up, and the kind that quietly drains you while you keep smiling like everything’s fine.

And today, I want to talk to you like an older brother who’s watching you give your heart to someone who doesn’t seem to understand the treasure he’s holding.

When You’re Always the One Who Cares More

You text first.

You overthink when he takes hours to reply.

You give chances because you know he has a good heart deep down.

And even when he pushes you away, you keep hoping he’ll come around.

I see you.

And I know how exhausting it is to keep showing up with love, only to feel like you’re standing in the cold waiting for someone who may never open the door.

Men aren’t always good at showing emotion. I get that. But there’s a difference between someone who’s emotionally unavailable—and someone who just doesn’t want to show up for you.

And it hurts.

Because you start thinking, “If I was enough, he would fight for me.”

But let me stop you right there:

Your worth is not measured by someone else’s ability to recognize it.

You’re Not Broken. You’re Just Tired of Proving Your Love

You’ve been trying so hard to be understanding.

To be patient.

To not come off as “needy” or “too sensitive.”

But why does love have to feel like a job interview? Why are you constantly trying to earn what should be freely given?

You don’t need to beg for clarity. You don’t need to become smaller so someone else feels more comfortable.

Love isn’t supposed to confuse you every night.

It’s supposed to calm your soul—not set it on fire with doubt.

So Why Do Men Pull Away?

Here’s the honest truth from a man’s heart:

Most of us were never taught how to be emotionally open. We learned to pull away when things got real. Not because we don’t feel—but because we were trained to suppress what we feel.

But here's the twist:

A man will always show up for the woman he deeply feels connected to. He will make space for her. He may not say much, but his actions will whisper “You matter.”

If he’s distant, dismissive, or constantly confused about you, then maybe it’s not that he’s unsure... maybe he already knows you’re not his priority. He just doesn't have the courage to say it.

And I know that’s hard to hear. But sister, truth is kinder than false hope.

You Deserve a Love That Chooses You Loudly

Not someone who half-loves you when it’s convenient.

Not someone who disappears when life gets hard.

You deserve someone who sees your softness as a gift, not a weakness.

And maybe you’ve been trying to unlock his heart, hoping he’ll one day understand what you’re worth.

Let me tell you something I wish more women knew:

There is a way to understand the male mind, not to manipulate it—but to truly connect with it.

There’s this powerful insight I once came across that completely changed the way I looked at relationships. It’s about what actually triggers deep devotion in a man. Something even he doesn’t fully understand about himself.

If you’re tired of guessing what he’s thinking…

If you want to learn how to create that soul-deep connection…

Take a moment to read this message. Not because you need to change yourself, but because you deserve to feel understood and loved in the way you’ve always given to others.

Don’t Give Up On Love — But Stop Settling for Less Than You Give

I don’t want you to walk away from love.

I want you to walk toward the kind of love that doesn’t leave you second-guessing your value.

You’re not too late.

You’re not too emotional.

You’re just finally waking up to what you deserve.

So breathe.

Cry if you need to.

But promise me you won’t keep shrinking to fit into someone else’s comfort zone.

You’re worth a love that doesn’t confuse you.

That doesn’t leave you waiting.

That doesn’t make you prove yourself.

And if no one’s told you this in a while—

You are seen.

You are loved.

And your heart matters.

Always in your corner,

Mehul

(Your older brother who gets it)