Feminism and it's myths

The Evolution of Feminism and its Impact on Mental Health

As a Millennial, I want to explore the history of feminism and its impact on mental health. The first wave of feminism began in 1848, fighting for basic rights like property ownership and voting. The second wave secured approval for birth control and anti-discrimination laws. The third wave fought for reproductive rights and the gender pay gap but made less legal progress. Today, we're in the fourth wave, led by celebrities and social media, fighting for minority groups and the LGBTQ+ community.

However, I believe radical feminists are selling young girls myths about who they are and their role in society. These myths have a ripple effect on mental health. The first myth is that women are victims. Modern-day feminism teaches young girls they're vulnerable and in danger. But statistics show men experience violence too. Adopting a victim mentality renders women weak and childlike.

The second myth is that sexual promiscuity is the only way to express control over one's body. The "free the nipple" movement has led to a 30% increase in breast augmentation and designer nipple surgery. Women are judging themselves and changing their bodies to fit in.

The third myth is that women need empowerment. Women are equally good leaders and more educated than men. They bring a different dynamic to the environment, being empathetic leaders and good listeners. Instead of fighting for equality in outcome, we should focus on equality of opportunity and teach young girls they have power within them.

Feminism has morphed over the years, and I can no longer stand by and watch the fourth wave tell young girls they need to sexually liberate themselves, wait for empowerment, and be victims. I want young girls to know the truth - they're powerful, brave, and resilient. They should honor and respect their bodies and work hard to achieve their goals.

Let's break free from these myths and build a society where women are strong, independent, and resolute.

some steps a woman can take to move beyond feminism myths and embrace her true power:

1. *Education and self-reflection*: Learn about the history of feminism and its evolution. Reflect on your own beliefs and values, and question what you've been taught about gender roles and expectations.

2. *Critical thinking*: Develop critical thinking skills to evaluate information and arguments objectively. Be cautious of biased sources and social media echo chambers.

3. *Empowerment through self-awareness*: Focus on personal growth, self-care, and self-awareness. Recognize your strengths and weaknesses, and work on building your confidence and resilience.

4. *Surround yourself with positive influences*: Seek out supportive relationships with people who encourage and believe in you. Avoid those who perpetuate limiting beliefs or reinforce harmful gender stereotypes.

5. *Embrace your individuality*: Celebrate your unique qualities, skills, and experiences. Don't try to conform to societal expectations or feminist ideals that don't align with your values.

6. *Take ownership of your choices*: Make informed decisions about your life, career, and relationships. Own your choices and don't blame external factors or gender roles.

7. *Practice self-love and acceptance*: Embrace your body, appearance, and sexuality. Focus on inner beauty, inner strength, and inner wisdom.

8. *Develop a growth mindset*: Embrace challenges, learn from failures, and continuously develop new skills. Believe in your ability to grow and evolve.

9. *Support other women*: Build each other up, share experiences, and celebrate each other's successes. Foster a community of strong, supportive women who uplift and inspire each other.

10. *Embrace your power*: Recognize your inherent power and potential. Believe in yourself, your abilities, and your worth. You are capable, strong, and deserving of happiness and success.

Remember, true empowerment comes from within. Break free from limiting beliefs, embrace your individuality, and unleash your full potential.