face yourself believe in yourself

You can trust others, but you can't count on others;

Don't refuse kindness, don't stop smiling;

Mistakes can be made, but not repeated;

Criticism must be accepted, insults must not be accepted.

It is a kind of wisdom to say what should be said, and to be dumb if it should be dumb;

It is a kind of wisdom to do what should be done, and retreat what should be retired;

What should be revealed should be revealed, and what should be hidden should be hidden. This is a state.

It’s not like you don’t feel or feel it when you’re in pain, but you don’t talk when you’re tired. When you’re in pain, no one understands, so what if you shout out? But don't say it, there are tears but don't shed, it's not that you don't want to say it, and it's not that you don't want to shed. In life, there are many times of suffering, so I swallow the tears quietly. Life is both pain and pleasure, pain, I can do it, tears, I don't shed.

Sometimes crying is not because of sadness. Some things are missed, and they are missed for the rest of their lives. People can change, keep a constant promise, but can't keep a fickle heart. Sometimes attachment is a burden, and giving up is a relief. People are not perfect, and happiness is not one hundred percent. I know that I have no ability to have so much at one time, and I have no right to ask for so much. Otherwise, I will suffer myself and embarrass the other party.

Everyone has their own ideas, practices, and ways of living. Different ideas, different practices, different ways of living, we do not need to interfere with others, influence others, or even attack others. If he is good, he will not be jealous, nor will he take revenge; if he is not good, he will not be attacked or despised. Everyone has self-esteem, everyone has difficulties, no one in life, does not want to live better and walk smoothly. Learn to understand, respect and help, and life will be better and more beautiful.

The word "peace of mind" is the most rare in life. The so-called "safety of mind" means that there is no regret, no regrets, no unthinkable things, not burdened by fame, not servile for profit, pure and clean, and clean. If you worry about gains and losses, and your mind is restless, your life will be exhausted and lifeless. Only by maintaining a peaceful heart, not looking at power, not envious of wealth, and living a pure and natural life, can one gain peace of mind.

Everyone will be hurt a lot when they grow up, they will cry and be sad, and they will feel pain. Many things are always understood after experience. After the pain, you will be strong; if you have crossed it, you will become mature; if you have been stupid, you will know how to cherish and give up at the right time. Only when you lose something, can you learn to cherish it; when you hit a wall, you can learn what to change and what to give up; you can learn to be a brand new self only after you have been hurt.

Time can't go back to where it started. For what has been missed, there is no need to try to save it. If you miss it, you will miss it. There are some things that I care about rather than acquire in the first place. Unforgettable people, dreams, expectations, journeys, there are some things that I think should be cherished, what about now! Clean up your mood and throw away the old to have a place to put the new one! Once a love is gone, forget it! The best memories are only yesterday.

The words we have said, the things we have done, the roads we have traveled, the people we have met, and every present is our memory in the future. There is no need to reminisce about yesterday, and there is no need to hope for tomorrow, just live each day seriously. Say what you can, do what you can do, walk the way you need to go, and meet the people you want to meet. Keep your feet on the ground, don’t ignore, don’t waste your time, have no fate, everything follows fate, keep a good mood, even if your heart is broken, you must have the most beautiful posture.

In life, we are accustomed to covering up our pain with a smile, wrapping our loss with ease, driving away loneliness with loneliness, and healing our wounds with forgetfulness. In fact, the hurts and pains in my heart, only I know, they are not easily forgotten, they will always float up inadvertently, and always feel like a dream when I hear a certain sentence or think of a certain person . Those deeply buried past events, like shadows, shuttle in our memories, fast and slow