Care for students, respect students, love students can not only in the mouth

A middle school student surnamed Bi in Xi 'an died after his parents failed to persuade him to go to school because he was forced to cut his head, media reported.

Middle school students are an important period for the formation of outlook on life and values, as well as a period of self-awareness and rebellion. Most of the time, their ideas are unrestrained, but they go their own way. At this time, parents and teachers should reasonably guide, respect their demands, and teach primary and middle school students norms of behavior.

Students' hairstyles, especially those of middle school students, have nothing to do with academic performance, but with their personal dignity. Nowadays, with the development of entertainment and communication, students can easily get information from the outside world through network platforms and TV programs, and have strong imitation ability. If the teenagers in TV programs are wearing strange hairstyles, it is easy for them to blindly follow the trend.

In a middle school text "shaved head", the author said: the rest of life is too late, about the hair of the thrilling story, mostly from hearing. In the early Qing Dynasty, Han people were ordered to shave their hair into braids, or "leave their hair without leaving their hair", and students in the late Qing Dynasty had their braids cut off in foreign countries and had to install a fake braid to get away safely after returning home. Therefore, reading Lu Xun's novel "The Story of Hair", apart from the surprise of enlightenment, it is very difficult to have a deep feeling of pain. And knowing that in the old days the barbers, who were most closely related to hair, were despised by society, and were not even allowed to be listed in their genealogies, that is to say, excommunicated...

However, on March 2, I read a letter from a reader of the People's Daily, which concerned hairdressers, which made me very uncomfortable. It was a barber in a barbershop in Jinan who refused to give a "bumpkin" a crew cut, believing that a bumpkin should only be shaved. When the hillbilly ran off the wall, a couple of barbers said, "There's no way the hillbilly wants a crew cut!" 'Nor look at myself! ...

After the development of The Times and the baptism of time, now the barber's haircut level, has not only stayed in the level of bald head and flat hair, can be a haircut on tens of thousands of yuan, even expensive to the police also "no way", obediously pay money and leave.

Once upon a time, in an era of scarcity, the crew cut was for hygiene, easy care and cleaning. A bar of soap, a fater, and a razor were also primitive tools. Barbers went from street to street to cut hair, and the crew cut became the standard "in" style at that time. As the years passed, the barber became a stylist, and began to enjoy the "master" treatment, along with engineers, lawyers, doctors, and even far more money...

It is said that the student has had his hair cut twice after the semester began, and now he is asked to cut his flat hair again. What do parents think? What do students think? Just spend your precious time walking to the barber shop, waiting in line at the barber shop?

According to the parents, the student also took the top nine in the exam, in the class is also a good result, more than sad, but also feel sorry for the parents: if the grades have been maintained, the future will be a bright future.

I have to think: junior high school students have begun to pay attention to their own image, have their own strong self-esteem, will gradually improve their personality, teachers should respect students' choice. Believe that the vast majority of boys, not long hair, but personality equality and respect. To the students, when respect but not indulgence; Not give up discipline, but pay attention to the way of discipline.