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A practical guide on how to attract women and make them want you.

Part of the guide available by the same name.

By Rudolph Danny Leiva Published 3 years ago 8 min read
A practical guide on how to attract women and make them want you.
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Promoting attraction without engaging in the “Initial Conversation.”

Trying to be liked by the opposite sex can be a real chore sometimes. Most of us learned the hard way. Bombing out with terrible pick-up lines, just to be humiliated later when we find out she gave us a bogus phone number to the local sex anonymous hotline.

Or it may be that on more than one occasion, you have found yourself wanting to attract a woman you like, but nothing worked for you, or you have doubts about whether that person will be receptive to you. Being able to know how to attract women without talking to them in the beginning is crucial.

So that the initial flirting stage can be done successfully, it must be borne in mind that the attraction between two people can occur before two people start talking to each other, which is what we’re going to explore in the following excerpts.

In this way, you can arouse interest in the other person through body language. Beyond the clothes you can wear, you must pay great attention to body language. How you move says a lot about you and your personality, as well as whether you are confident or insecure. Being able to control your body movements can be vital in getting a woman’s attention.

There are many ways to get a woman to notice you without even having to speak to her initially. For this, they must resort to non-verbal flirting tricks. How to get a woman’s attention without speaking Next, we are going to talk about different tips that you should keep in mind if you want to get a woman’s attention without saying a word.

In this way, it will be easier for you to flirt since you will be able to start talking to her, knowing that she likes you or, at least, has a certain attraction.

First, you must take care of your appearance and your look. Although a priority may not seem very important to you, the reality is that it is to achieve a more significant attraction from the other person; through different aspects of your appearance, you can get a woman’s attention.

For this, it is recommended that you have garments in the form of T-shirts and shirts in neutral colors and without prints.

You should also have more formal footwear and other more sporty and casual clothes. However, beyond the choice of clothes, which is something personal and a matter of taste, it is essential to observe how the clothes fit you. This is essential to be able to capture the attention of the other person.

To do this, you must make sure that the clothes are not too loose, but not too tight either. You must be able to dress according to the characteristics of your physique to get the most out of it. Also, clothing should reflect your personality.

Like some women say: “clothes make the man,” this way you may arouse the interest of the woman of your desires.

Body Language

Body language is a form of communication that uses gestures, postures, and movements of the body and face to convey information about the sender’s emotions and thoughts.

It is usually done unconsciously, so it is usually a very clear indicator of people’s emotional state. Along with vocal intonation, it is part of non-verbal communication.

Body language should not be taken as an absolute truth because many environmental factors can influence it. That is why you should never conclude by interpreting a single body sign; The key is to observe sets of signs that are consistent with each other and rule out possible external causes (temperature, noise, fatigue, etc.).

That being said, let’s see everything we are capable of communicating with our body and face.

Beyond the clothes you can wear, you must pay great attention to body language. How you move says a lot about you and your personality, as well as whether you are confident or insecure. Being able to control your body movements can be vital in getting a woman’s attention.

The movements. They should be carefree, as if they are so fabulously successful that they rarely have reason to hurry up or to impress someone. move around the world doing what you want and assuming others will follow.

The displacement of the body. Your arms and legs should be extended. Don’t be afraid to take up space. The voice. should have an effect of calm, softening, and commanding. Don’t speak too fast or force your voice.

I would even dare to say that your Body language is more important than anything you say because if your body language doesn’t match the words coming out of your mouth, then don’t you will be successful with women.

You see if you tell stories to a woman who transmits your confidence, but at the same time, you sink and cross your arms, then it will be noticed that you are false.

I arose women in the past solely through the use of my body language. For example, a couple of months, I was in a coffee shop I usually go to, lounging on the sofa with my arms open and feet on the table. The mental attitude I had was that I felt so comfortable that it was as if I were at home resting on my sofa. It was as if he owned the cafeteria. The net result was that a girl sitting next to me put down her book and began to make small talk at random.

(Whenever an attractive woman you don’t know starts a random conversation with you, you should ALWAYS assume that she is attracted to you. This is because women generally won’t risk the entire male-female dynamic, especially with a stranger, unless they feel attraction.)

The conversation went on for a while, I got her number, called her that night, and a few days later, we ran into each other. and after several hours, we went to his house, where I spent the night. (Finally, we had sex in the morning). The main point, however, is that she was initially attracted to me and approached me because of my body language.

Can you become a seducer?

Is seduction an art, or is it intrinsic to your personality? Everyone wants to be a seduction king. Despite this, many times, people fail by not having enough skills to show their charms and be able to seduce others. Being seductive and manipulative are two different things and must not be confused. Women like to be seduced but hate to be manipulated. We must learn the difference and be diligent in our efforts to conquer someone’s heart in a wholesome way. Not with deception but with the truth of our intentions. find a partner to love, not a victim to hurt.

Here we will show you what the personality of a seducer consists of, as well as some psychological intrigues with which to reach someone’s heart.

Even so, even if you learn the art of seduction, the reality is that seducing a woman will only be worth it if there is a common bond.

What influences seduction?

seduction is an art that is difficult both to explain and to teach. Although the best thing to become a real seducer is to enjoy good self-esteem and security, it is true that from psychology, there are some secrets from which we can play to some advantage.

Here are eight points we should learn and utilize in the art of attracting women and making them want us.

1. The smell and pheromones:

Smell plays a very important role in seduction. All body odors are detected by our organism at an unconscious level; they contribute a lot to our first impressions, rest assured, a confident person with great self-confidence and love for others does not smell the same as a fearful, insecure, and misanthropic subject.

Human beings, like other mammals, are biologically programmed to detect body odors automatically without going through our conscious level. It is known that the more diverse smells we have in our memory, the more emotions and feelings we have, which, in turn, are aroused by the smells, the situations, and the contexts in which they took place and, therefore, the higher the unconscious emotional level which has nothing to do with the emotional level expressed or perceived.

2. The chemistry of our brain:

There is a neurotransmitter in humans called phenylethylamine. This is a precursor substance for dopamine and is synthesized from phenylalanine. Phenylethylamine is believed to be the cause of falling in love and the sensation of passion, it's the neurotransmitter responsible for romantic love and the art of seduction.

This substance is developed from glances, handshakes, small body touches, and various simple activations such as body approaches, small provocative gestures, etc.

3. Direct eye contact:

It is essential, which stimulates phenylethylamine and awakens the feeling of being in love. The most visible bodily effects are dilated and large pupils; they widen looking at the parts of your partner’s body that you like and from loving and sexual thoughts.

4. Our language and behavior:

Once in a flirt situation, we must encourage brief and soft casual contacts and unconsummated body approaches, in addition to gradually incorporating insinuations and friendly and playful physical contact. It is very stimulating to incorporate a language heavily loaded with suggestive adjectives and verbs into our everyday language, adjectives such as hot, sensual, juicy, hot, tempting, exciting, and hot, among many more.

5. Make the other feel desired:

A very important rule is to make the other feel like the fascinating center of your desire with looks, body approaches, smiles, and insinuating postures; In general, the following behaviors occur.

What influences seduction?

6 What psychological traits are involved in seduction?

There are many factors involved in seduction. Despite this, we can try to improve those that depend on psychology. Trying to improve them will make your ability to seduce others better, although what will determine success will always be the bond formed between the two participants.

7. Leave some room for some Mystery:

Discovering the life of the other, little by little, is fascinating and makes you feel special as if you had only told him or her.

8. Patience:

Moving forward with serenity, security, and without haste is more rewarding and stimulates motivation, desire, and passion. (Patience is the ultimate key to success.)

Seduction techniques

As we have already said, to seduce a woman, one of the first basic rules is to show yourself as you truly are. Even so, psychology has established some seduction techniques with which we can have some extra points in front of the person we like. Use these ten pointers of seductive behavior to be successful in your conquest efforts.

If you would like to own a complete guide on the subject of “How to attract women and make them want you,” click here.

Published by Vtale.press, under the pen name Adriel Masters.

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About the Creator

Rudolph Danny Leiva

Rudolph Danny Leiva was born in New York's Flushing Hospital, on July 13th,1960. He enjoys drawing, painting, and artwork, among other talents he would later develop, as a singer, songwriter, and published author. He now lives in So. Cal.

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