
WHAT MAKES US HUMAN
Human behavior is influenced by psychological factors that connect us despite our diverse backgrounds, cultures, and beliefs. While physical characteristics such as body parts are common to all humans, our shared psychological traits shape our decision-making, social preferences, and aspirations, regardless of geographical distance.
Unfortunately, many fail to recognize the psychological foundations that unite us. Consequently, some individuals go against their inherent human nature, disregarding fundamental behaviors. For instance, societal norms often misconstrue genuine human thoughts, emotions, and actions. To shed light on this, let's explore fourteen intriguing and occasionally unexpected facts about the behaviors that define our humanity.
1.The Work Paradox
Does monetary compensation enhance or diminish our motivation to perform at our best? Although one might assume that a substantial paycheck would inspire excellence in the workplace, the opposite is often true. Surprisingly, individuals tend to exert greater effort on projects when they receive insufficient or no payment at all. Strangely enough, earning a salary can decrease motivation because it alters one's intentions. Once an activity becomes a paid job, it loses its status as a passion project, reducing intrinsic motivation. The most valuable things we do in life may not yield financial rewards.
2.The Downside of Preparation
Prior to facing a challenge, many people prefer to have a backup plan—Plan A and Plan B. By extensively preparing, they aim to maximize their chances of success. However, it turns out that investing time in a backup plan can actually undermine the likelihood of succeeding with Plan A. The existence of a Plan B acknowledges the possibility of Plan A's failure. Consequently, confidence in the primary plan diminishes, increasing the probability of failure. Paradoxically, excessive preparation does not always yield favorable outcomes.
3.Innate Violence
Contrary to popular belief, humans are not inherently violent beings. Rather, human psychology reveals that we are programmed to experience empathy, a powerful emotion. Evidence for this lies within our brains, specifically in mirror neurons that enable us to understand others' behaviors. Mirror neurons play a crucial role in advanced cognitive abilities and explain our capacity for emotions. While violence may seem prevalent in the world, it's essential to remember that caring for others is an intrinsic part of our nature.
4.Universal Language of Expressions
Amidst the numerous languages spoken worldwide, there exists a universal language that transcends cultural and social boundaries—the language of expressions. Whether someone is from a different background or upbringing, facial expressions like smiles and frowns convey messages that can be universally understood. These expressions are deeply ingrained in our psychological makeup.
5.Influence of Emotions
Human emotions often replicate themselves, meaning that happy individuals tend to make choices that reflect their happiness, while lonely or miserable people behave in ways that align with their negative state of mind. It's important to recognize how our actions shape our perception of the world. Happiness begets happiness, and negativity begets negativity. The emotions we project into the world tend to be reciprocated.
6.Evolutionary Psychology
Many of our behaviors, preferences, and instincts are evolutionary adaptations designed to provide advantages in our current environment. Adaptation isn't limited to physical traits; our everyday actions are also products of an evolutionary process. Over millions of years, human behaviors have evolved, contributing to our success as a species.
7.Unconscious Healing
Our bodies possess remarkable self-healing capabilities, even as we engage in behaviors that may harm our physical well-being. Sacrificing physical health for professional, financial, or social gains has become acceptable in society. However, our bodies have innate mechanisms that continuously work to repair and undo the damage we inflict upon ourselves. These processes largely occur unconsciously, often taken for granted due to their imperceptibility. Without these mechanisms, our self-destructive choices would swiftly undermine our well-being.
8.Outgroup Homogeneity
While humans excel at recognizing members of their own social groups, they often struggle to identify diverse characteristics in those outside their familiar circles. Outgroup homogeneity is a psychological phenomenon that makes it challenging to distinguish between less familiar faces. As one gains exposure to a wider range of traits, their perceptiveness improves. Until then, larger groups of people may appear similar due to this bias, although it is important to note that this observation may be offensive in certain contexts.
9.Music and Perception
Music holds a strong influence on our unconscious perception of the world. Studies have shown that music can significantly impact our mood, perspective, and even psychological biases. Although individuals may respond differently to various genres and artists, the act of listening to music affects how we interact with the world, even if we are not consciously attentive to its influence.
10.Understanding Evil
The concept of evil is often tied to specific individuals with a history of immoral behavior, leading to the assumption that they are intrinsically wicked. However, evil behavior is primarily shaped by destructive environmental influences rather than innate evil tendencies. While this does not excuse immoral actions, understanding the origins of evil requires consideration of its root causes.
11.Lie Detection
Many individuals believe they are adept liars, but the truth is that most people are not skilled liars. Rather, others often fail to recognize the signs of deception. In other words, poor liars are generally unaware when they are being lied to. Unless someone has received specialized training or possesses extensive experience in manipulating others, their ability to deceive is typically not as proficient as they perceive it to be.
12.Positive Aspect of Anxiety
Anxiety, a significant topic in modern psychology, serves as an important psychological adaptation that sets humans apart from other creatures. While it is often seen as an illness to be cured, anxiety actually functions as a protective mechanism, alerting us to potential dangers and motivating cautious decision-making. When managed in a healthy manner, anxiety can provide individuals with an advantage they may not fully realize.
13.Benefits of Sarcasm
Sarcasm, often viewed as negative or insulting, can actually be a positive trait. It indicates alertness, attentiveness, and quick thinking, reflecting a high level of intelligence. Even though being on the receiving end of sarcastic remarks may not always be enjoyable, it signifies that one's brain is operating effectively.
14.Mood and Clothing
Unbeknownst to many, people often use clothing as a means of communicating their emotions. Individuals tend to wear brighter, lighter, and more textural clothing when they are happy, whereas a bad day may prompt them to choose darker, more comfortable attire. Even if someone attempts to conceal their mood or feelings, their clothing can reveal more than they intend. Paying attention to subtle changes in someone's style can provide insight into their genuine thoughts and emotions.


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