
In this changeable and uncertain place, we always hope that God will grant us more ability to see through the "fog", or that we yearn for extraordinary abilities, such as seeing through the human heart at a glance. This ability helps us to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages quickly, because understanding a human heart always happens after being hurt. Our reason needs to be injured or lost before we can gain experience.
To this end, Zeng Guofan wrote the Ice Jam, which can see through the hearts of the people. In history, there is no lack of people who are good at knowing people, such as Deng Yu, a classmate of Emperor Liu Xiu of Han Guang, and Zhuge Liang of the three Kingdoms, who have outstanding talents in distinguishing people and controlling talents. Therefore, to be able to understand the human heart means less harm and less waste of energy, and we all have a strong desire to increase our eyesight in this respect.
There is a kind of people who are probably very welcome to us. Such people are honest people. Honest people do not deceive themselves or others, so they bring little or no harm or loss to others, and always worry about the interests of others. This is in line with everyone's nature to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, so everyone is eager to meet more honest people and hope to be accompanied by more honest people on the road to self-achievement.
However, the human heart is unpredictable: in order to seek profit or protect themselves, the human heart is always covered by false appearances. If we do not experience something with others, it is difficult for us to distinguish between true and false, and it is difficult to clean up the appearance, and there are always many difficulties in identifying the true mind.
Honest people who read the world a little more will also wear some masks or speak less. They first had an honest heart, and then they were forced to wear masks by the world. However, after all, they are different from other people, it is difficult for them to put too many hypocritical things on their faces, just a little more to cope with the slickness of others. How should we distinguish such people?
Honest people always have the following behaviors:
First, when they tell things, they will not lie casually, and they will never be double-faced in front of others. If it is true that the truth cannot be expressed, they will at best avoid talking about some facts, but what they say must be true.
Second, we must sincerely deal with what we have promised to others. First ask people about the deadline, and if you can handle it, put things on your agenda, and when you encounter unspeakable secrets in the process of doing things, you must truthfully tell whether it needs to be completed or not, but you can't do it in time and you will never cajole people with false sweet words.
Third, do not take cunning as the principle and do not give people the impression of being treacherous. This is something they deliberately avoid because they regard adultery as a stench in their hearts. By the same token, treacherous people do not deliberately become evil people, what they deliberately do is to seek their own interests by improper means.
The purpose of identifying honest people is to facilitate us to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages in order to facilitate affairs, so it is also necessary to eliminate pedantic and lofty people. The fourth point is that sincere people do not always take into account personal hobbies, such as fame, being swayed by an idea, or being inflexible.
Fifth, better honest people are not surprised or humiliated, there are overall vision, they are sincere to others, to themselves and to heaven. This is not achieved overnight, even an honest potential stock, it takes a long time to temper to achieve this level.
These are some of the phenomena that roughly identify honest people. By the way, many people think that "I" is perfect and that they are full of love and justice, but in fact, most or all of us make decisions for personal self-interest and security. Please don't question this too much.
In addition, everyone will have flaws, imperfections and weakness in character and emotion. For example, some people are courageous but less resourceful, some are resourceful but bound by too much selfishness, some are fair but inexperienced, some are experienced but too cunning, some are honest but emotionally fragile, and some are emotionally firm but lack courage.
We think that our character is strong and unshakeable, and we will be easily bruised and defeated by a very simple force when we encounter a "big event". The reason is that we are not perfect but "strong" think we are perfect. One must not overestimate one's own talents.
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