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Why Do I Talk In My Sleep

Watching someone talk in their sleep can be funny and sometimes even scary, but what’s happening in the brain when this takes place

By brahim jbariPublished 2 years ago 3 min read
Why Do I Talk In My Sleep
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I hear the secrets that you keep. When you're talking in your sleep. All your dreams that you keep inside… You're telling me the secrets that you just can't hide. Hey there, sleepers. Somniloquy, is the name given to the sleep abnormality of talking in your sleep. For some unknown reason, some people will snooze comfortably and quietly, whereas others will speak gibberish, words, sentences, or entire speeches whilst sawing their logs. Understanding sleepiness involves understanding a bit about sleep first. As you fall asleep, your brain's reticular activating system (RAS) hands control over to the ventrolateral preoptic nucleus (VLPO) for sleepytime. During

that transition is when you twitch, btw -- we did a

whole video on that! Once asleep, the brain goes through a predictable set of four stages (one of those is the famous Rapid Eye Movement, or REM sleep, where dreaming happens). During sleep, your brain squirts out two paralyzing chemicals glycine and GABA. These keep your vocal chords (and mouth, body muscles and such) paralyzed. Okay, so… scientists don't have any idea why some people talk in their sleep. Sleep talking can occur at any time during REM or non-REM sleep; which means it's not necessarily when we voice a dream, it can be anytime! Scientists think sometimes, people might slip through their own paralyzing net of glycine and GABA and end up voicing what's happening inside their head; called a "motor breakthrough." Or maybe it's because of "transitory arousal," which is

when

we switch between sleep stages. It's related to sleepwalking and night terrors and about half of all children and five percent of adults will talk in their sleep; and it's more common among men than women -- though sleep researchers don't know why. Sometimes sleep talking is just a few words, sometimes it's 30 seconds or more and it's hardly ever sensical. Sometimes sleep talkers are sweet, sometimes they're explicit, sometimes they whisper, sometimes they shout; and that's where it can turn into a problem for those sharing a bedroom with others. A study of over 2000 schoolchildren published in the journal Brain and Development found only 10 percent of children will sleep talk every night, but 50 percent will do so once a year. According to another study in Pediatrics, by age 13 most childhood sleep abnormalities declined, but not somniloquy! The problem with most sleep studies is we don't remember talking in our sleep; because

we're asleep! And, even when sharing a bed,

instances are so brief the other sleeping person commonly missed it too, unless there's persistent conversation -- which is possible. Look up Sleep Talkin' Man for some entertaining sleep talking. So funny. Other than the possibility of waking your bedfellow, sleep talking isn't generally harmful. Though, when people frequently experience somniloquy after age 25, the National Sleep Foundation recommends seeking professional help. Somniloquy is not connected to insanity, as portrayed in films and stories, simply stress. The National Sleep Foundation says adult sleepiness can be

brought on by stress, fever, sleep deprivation

, alcohol or drugs, or something more serious, such as depression. Psychology Today advises partners to invest in a fan, white noise machine, or good earplugs if it's interrupting sleep, but rest assured you'll soon be reassured. This behavior is often short-lived, either during awakenings from extreme stress or lack of sleep, or just during childhood. Practicing healthy sleep behaviors — such as limiting caffeine and screens, and maintaining a regular bed and wake time — all reduce the incidence of sleep talking in adults. Oh, and if you're worried about exposing your secrets, the courts have ruled that speaking in your sleep is inadmissible as evidence, because it's not a product of the conscious mind, so sleep well. Have you ever experienced sleepwalking? Either the speaker or the awakened partner? Tell me

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If only it had been described as a vague dream

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