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The American Dream

Pursuing Self-reliance, contentment, and that elusive work-life balance

By LUKE KHAKEYOPublished about a year ago 4 min read
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The American Dream, ah! For many decades, it has been the bright carrot that beckons those who are prepared to pursue it, offering assurances of prosperity, security, and an improved quality of life. It used to be all about a couple of kids playing in a suburban backyard, a respectable career, and that white picket fence. However, the American Dream may look a little different in the twenty-first century, with avocado toast budgets, remote work turmoil, and exorbitant housing prices. Warning: there will be fewer picket fences and more "Do I really want to live my entire life in a cubicle in an office?"

Let us examine the evolution of the American Dream—Sigh and chuckle a little.

The Golden Oldie Version: The Classic American Dream

The American Dream, ah! For many decades, it has been the bright carrot that beckons those who are prepared to pursue it, offering assurances of prosperity, security, and an improved quality of life. It used to be all about a couple of kids playing in a suburban backyard, a respectable career, and that white picket fence. However, the American Dream may look a little different in the twenty-first century, with avocado toast budgets, remote work turmoil, and exorbitant housing prices. Warning: there will be fewer picket fences and more "Do I really want to live my entire life in a cubicle in an office?"

Let us examine the evolution of the American Dream—Sigh and chuckle a little.

Despite its shortcomings, this timeless fantasy remained a hopeful one. It envisioned a society in which everyone might obtain their share of the American pie (à la mode, of course) with perseverance. And who is not a pie lover? Unfortunately, since then, things have changed somewhat, making it more difficult for many people to access, let alone afford, that pie.

The Dream Meets Reality: A Changing Landscape

In the present day, "homeownership" can seem like a joke. Wages have struggled to keep up, housing costs have increased, and job stability is like Bigfoot—some people say they have seen it, but no one has any concrete evidence. The goal of a home and a steady job seems to have been replaced for many Millennials and Gen Zers by student loans, an apartment rental, and a few freelancing jobs.

Higher education used to be a golden ticket, but now it’s more like a very expensive raffle with questionable odds. Student loans, housing prices, and a job market that feels like a game of musical chairs all make the “traditional” American Dream a little trickier to achieve.

But don’t cue the sad violins just yet! Rather than clinging to this old idea, many people today are redefining what the dream looks like—choosing freedom, fulfillment, and flexibility over stuffy ideas of success.

The New American Dream: Success, but Make It Fulfilling

The American Dream of today frequently like this: find fulfilling job, have fun, maintain your sanity, and possibly even be debt-free. Instead of burnout, it is a dream of balance, where happiness rather than possessions determines success. How about sustainable living, work-life balance, and, dare we say it, happiness instead of the white picket fence?

Being adaptable has become the new objective. People who work remotely can travel, live in smaller communities, or work in their pajamas if they so choose—is not that the American Dream? Additionally, people can prioritize their priorities, such as family, hobbies, or that sourdough bread they are perfecting, when they have the freedom to design their days.

Mental health is also getting its long-overdue spotlight. Instead of striving for big houses and fat paychecks, many are focused on living with purpose, fostering genuine relationships, and maintaining mental health. It’s a dream that feels, well, a little more human.

A Dream for All: Inclusivity in the American Dream

One thing that’s clear in today’s dreamscape? Inclusivity matters. The old-school dream wasn’t made for everyone, but the new American Dream strives to be broader and more welcoming. Immigrants bring fresh hopes and unique perspectives to America, each adding their own colors to the big, diverse picture. For many, the American Dream isn’t about owning a mansion; it’s about creating stability, pursuing education, and securing a future for the next generation. It’s about possibility and resilience, no matter where you’re from or what barriers you face.

Digital Dreams: How Technology Shakes Things Up

It would be impossible to discuss the modern dream without bringing up the internet, where everyone may achieve success or at least become well-known. New methods of connecting, working, and creating have been made possible by technology. Artists can share their work with the globe, entrepreneurs can start enterprises from their kitchen tables, and memes—well, they can spread more quickly than wildfire.

However, technology has drawbacks. Having work at your fingertips can be liberating, but it can also mean that you will never be able to properly clock out. Because social media presents a glossy (and frequently unattainable) image of success, it is simple to feel inferior to an influencer by comparing oneself to their highlight reel. While there are benefits to the digital dream, there are drawbacks as well.

What, then, is the modern American Dream?

There is no denying that the American Dream has changed. Having possessions is no longer as important as leading a meaningful life. People are beginning to realize that, in an often incongruous world, success may not be about acquiring more material possessions but rather about finding contentment in what they already have.

This new goal could entail prioritizing serenity over prestige, choosing contentment over high-status employment, and living in a comfortable apartment rather than a large home. Whether someone is after security, artistic freedom, a better life for their family, or just a small portion of happiness, the American Dream is now malleable, fluid, and unique to each individual who pursues it.

Finding a comfortable pair of sneakers and forging your own path may be the new American Dream, if the old one was about getting by on your own. It is up to you to decide whether that path leads to a tiny house, a house with a white picket fence, or a remote job on the beach.

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LUKE KHAKEYO

Writing is my raison d'etre.

To Be Able To Think, You Must Risk Being Offensive,- Jordan. B. Peterson

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  • Mark Grahamabout a year ago

    Great story. I am one of those work from home people. Turns out I just want enough to pay my bills and still maybe geta treat once in a while.

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