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She Cheats , do this

Sulayman Kone

By Sulayman KonePublished 3 years ago 7 min read

listen up because this is gonna hit hard

and fast just like a quick nasty punch

to the gut

that's about all you need to know to

smell the crappy scent of betrayal

before it ever happens

we're talking about signs that she will

cheat on you I'm gonna splash some truth

on you because you're gonna need it if

you can't handle the heat then get out

of the kitchen right this isn't for the

week this is for those that are ready to

Face Reality even if it slaps him in the

face men there man it's ugly it hurts it

can even Crush you so again listen up

this is the no BS guide to spotting a

cheater before they even get the chance

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chapter one she has a public Instagram

account and never posts pictures of you

you're a girl she has an Instagram

account right it's a public one so

anyone and everyone can see her posts

now even dating her for a while and

you're pretty serious about each other

at least that's what you think and then

you look at her Instagram and something

feels off there's no trace of you none

at all it's like you're a ghost in her

flashy social media life she's posting

photos of her dog her meals or vacations

even that ugly sweater her grandma did

it but you nothing you like Bigfoot man

rumored to exist but never really seen

this my friend is a giant waving neon

red flag let me spell it out for you if

you're not falling for it Instagram for

money is a highlight reel of their lives

it's where they show off the best parts

the parts they're proud of so if she's

keeping you out of it it's not a good

sign it's like she's trying to project

the image of being single it's like

she's leaving her options open just in

case something better comes along

hey let's not forget the comment section

A random dudes leaving flirty comments

on her posts is she replying to them

with winky faces or Hearts that's like a

public invitation to them dudes he's

like it's like she's enjoying the

attention from other guys while keeping

you in the dark what the hell man

if she does that and you let her you are

in for one nasty day and it's coming

chapter two she always wants to go to

the club picture this for a moment it's

Friday night you're thinking of a chill

movie or a cozy dinner and she hits you

with let's go to the club sure clubs can

be fun once in a while but if she's

always pushing for it something's not

right clubs are full of Temptations man

flashing lights loud music loads of

people looking to have a good time

drunkards and let's be honest a good

chunk of them are there to hook up now

I'm not saying she can enjoy a night out

but if she's constantly drawn to that

environment it's a red flag

member boys actions speak louder than

words if she'd rather spend time at a

crowded Club than with you well that

speaks volumes about where her

priorities lie is she craving the

attention from all the other guys is she

still wanting to live that single life

you gotta ask yourself these questions

also how does she behave at the club

does she disappear for long periods

leaving you alone does she flirt with

other guys maybe even dance a bit too

close with them if she's drinking too

much to the point where she's feeling

that herself anymore that's also

concerning these are all bad signs dude

it's like she's not really committed to

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has a guy friend here's a classic one

fellas you probably heard it before oh

he's just a friend and maybe he is maybe

he's been in her life in way before you

even knew she existed it's all good but

here's the catch you gotta watch how

they interact my dude if she spends a

ton of time with him more than she does

with you that's a red flag

if she talks to him about stuff she

doesn't talk to you about well there's

another

if she seems excited when he calls or

texts even when she's with you that's a

big no she's giving him attention she

should be giving you her partner

and it only gets worse when she hides

things about him does she keep their

texting calls secret does she avoid

talking about him or maybe she gets

defensive when you ask about him that's

fishy dude in a healthy relationship

there ain't no place for Secrets

especially about another man in her life

every guy friend is a threat I have to

double triple clarify that not at all

but the way she behaves around him and

with you matters a lot if she's not

setting boundaries if she's not making

it clear that you are the number one guy

in her life or

at least that she's very visibly not

physically attracted to him well and

then there's a good chance she's got her

heart set somewhere else

chapter 4 she disrespects you in public

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if she disrespects you in public we got

a big old problem here bucko see respect

is a Cornerstone of any relationship and

when it's gone Things Fall Apart fast

now let me paint you a picture because

I'm an artist

you're hanging out with friends you're

having a great time then out of nowhere

she starts taking Jabs at you making you

the butt of her jokes maybe even rolling

her eyes in your ideas she does it in a

way that feels like I spit in the face

and the worst part she does in front of

everyone making you feel small dude that

ain't cool it's flat out disrespectful

means she doesn't value your feelings

and if she doesn't respect you who's to

say she won't step out on you you see

the connection here disrespect can

easily lead to cheating if you can't

respect you shame worth your time it's a

harsh truth but it's one that you have

to face if you want to avoid getting

your heart broken

chapter 5 she takes the lead in the

relationship now fellas don't get me

wrong there is nothing bad about being a

strong independent woman in fact it's a

great thing but there is a difference

between being a partner and trying to

run the show if she's the one calling

all the shots making all the plans and

you're just there to follow her orders

well that's a bad bad sign my man

especially if you let that happen then

you need to see a therapist but if she

doesn't let you have a say if she's not

considering your opinions or feelings

that ain't a relationship that's a

dictatorship

you see relationships are about balance

it's like a dance right sometimes you

lead sometimes she leads but if she's

always the one in control she's always

leading and means that she doesn't trust

you or value your input it means she

sees you as less than her and that's

just that's not just freaking bad if if

she doesn't trust you to make decisions

if she doesn't respect your opinion

what's stopping her from looking for

someone else she thinks is better

someone she can respect someone she

thinks is worthy of making decisions

nothing and that's why it's a big red

flag but hey you're not a puppet man

you're a person you deserve to be heard

and respected so if she's always talking

about taking the lead and not letting

you have a stay it's time for a serious

talking to trust me on this one

chapter 6 her friend robane loyal now

this last point is the biggie now I

listened carefully fellas you could

learn a lot about a person from the

company that they keep that's right her

friends can give you a lot of serious

clues about her behaviors and her true

personality

Let Me Explain If a friends are

constantly hopping from one dick to the

next cheating on their Partners or

they're always in some sort of drama be

careful she's probably not that

different why people tend to hang around

with like-minded individuals people that

won't make them feel bad about their

terrible choices

you see if her friends don't value

loyalty if they think it's okay to cheat

and there's a good chance that she also

thinks it's okay and that ain't a risk

you wanna take trust me plus think about

it if your friends are cheating and

they're her main influences do you think

they're gonna encourage her to stay

loyal to you no no no they're probably

gonna push you to join their cheating

Club

let's go to the club I know a good place

that's a party I mean obviously not just

stereotype all women but you get my

point

it's harsh but it's the truth so fellas

pay attention to her friends if they

ain't loyal she ain't loyal either at

least probably

tether she's not loyal or she's a very

very trusting and ignorant choice of

friends decisions which is also possible

so in the end just know that your

heart's not a toy man don't let anyone

come and play with it

you deserve respect you deserve loyalty

you deserve a partner who loves and

values you don't settle for anything

less

it's always better to be single than in

a toxic relationship so keep your eyes

open boys

Dating

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