If you are single, do you really need a partner

Most people in this world have no idea what kind of life they're going to live, let alone who they're going to spend it with. They tend to blame their frustrations on being married, or not. As if if it were not so, it would be possible to gain enlightenment and ascend.

In fact, you a person are not good, can two people together? If neither of you can do well, you can only do worse for yourself. In short, in and out of town, this is generally the case. Whether you go in or come out, your life will probably be like this. Whether you live well or not is up to you, not others.

Most of them fall into the single crowd and attribute their unhappiness to being single, so they seek to put an end to this situation, hoping that a snail girl will fall from the sky to pull them out of the mire and change their miserable life. For them, marriage is an important thing, is a milestone like victory, so they want to marry this result, as to whom to marry, but not too picky, age, height, income, appearance, pull out a comparison, like cattle and horses, age geometry? Are you in heat? Big difference does not deserve to go up, good pull into bridal chamber married. Old matchmakers, old ladies of neighborhood committees, old colleagues of your mother, matchmaking agencies... Most make a living from it.

Occasionally, of course, there are single people who have a good life and become a freak in everyone's eyes.

You're single. Shouldn't you be anxious and sallow? Should not impotence premature ejaculation menstruation not adjust? Shouldn't you have flat chests and thin hips and acne? Lo your ya that face spring breeze peach blossom dark unripe of small SAO kind son, with his mama what ah? ! Miss Huang, a former entertainment writer, wrote an article about Pan Hong, a 60-year-old divorced woman with a thriving life, in her official account.

These freaks are usually financially independent and have money to be self-indulgent. If you have to work half a day to buy a movie ticket, you either need to make money, or you really need to consider finding someone to share your financial burden. Secondly, independent personality, not for others. Who doesn't have a couple of annoying relatives, all day long with your ear to the side of the nagging nagging nagging nagging nagging, maybe once the ear is soft, from. Other people marry you also knot, other people have a baby you also have. To be an outlier in this society, it's more important to be mentally strong than anything else. To be refreshed again. The spirit of the empty person is not a person to stay, they idle down on the heart of empty, or quickly about people drink cards, or online games, in short, lively. Reading, writing, painting, photography, gardening, yoga, meditation, music, drama, running... And so on are skills that allow you to have fun with yourself, indulge in them, and not feel young.

Financial independence, personality independence, and a full spiritual world, people are living like this, then why to find a spouse?

In fact, it doesn't have to be a person, it's just that we're all alive, so what's the hurry? A person is used to, their own world has been relatively complete, you can take care of all things, so, to more people to why ah? Two people together, must mean some sense of compromise and compromise, and if the compromise and compromise if you feel worthless, it is easy to blow up. You can easily go up. "Why? I/I a person not also live well ah "thought.

Two people together, both psychologically and physically must be better than when alone, human beings are willing to accept that point of compromise and compromise, if not, then why? It's easy for the bad guys to find reasons to compromise and give way, but it's really hard for those few freaks. Because they are already largely self-sufficient, both physically and spiritually, soul bonding becomes especially important in order to enter their world. When it comes to the soul, it's God's business. It's bullshit.