I hate my best friend, here is why

I hate my best friend, I really do. She's the reason that I'm depressed, she has ruined my life and now she won't leave me alone! Why can't we just get over each other?

My best friend is a liar.

The first thing to remember is that your best friend's lies are only a reflection of their own character. The fact that they lie to you does not mean that YOU are lying, nor does it mean that YOU have done anything wrong or hurtful. It simply means that the friendship is not working for them and therefor should be ended.

The most common lies you will hear from your best friend are:

• "I'm fine." She may say this when she isn't fine at all, but doesn't want you to worry about her or get involved in her life more than necessary.
• "I don't know what I am feeling right now." This can either mean he/she really doesn't know what they're feeling OR he/she has been so hurt by something in the past (a breakup or divorce) that they feel they need time alone before letting anyone into their life again on a deeper level than friendship

My best friend is arrogant.

A friend is supposed to be someone you can trust and turn to in times of need. But if your best friend is arrogant, then they're probably not worthy of being called a "best" friend. Narcissism is one of the most common traits among people with narcissistic personality disorder (NPD), and it's also one long-term effects of having parents with NPD. This can make them seem very confident and self-assured, but it's actually just their way of hiding their own insecurities with an inflated ego.

Because your friend lacks self-esteem and confidence, they may act like they don't need anyone else - this includes you! Their arrogance might mean that they think they're better than everyone else around them or feel like others are beneath them because they're so great at everything. Often this behavior comes from being rejected by others as children because these kids didn't get enough attention from their parents or other caregivers when growing up; so now as adults we call this type "toxic" friendships when we see it happening between adults who care about each other deeply yet are unable to get past these underlying issues affecting both people involved - which often leads to breakup due lack mutual trust levels after years spent together trying work out relationship problems between two parties instead focusing on personal growth journey for both individuals separately instead focusing solely on making relationship work regardless what happens afterwards."

My friend stabs me in the back.

You are not a good friend when you do this. You are using them, and they know it. If you really want to be a good friend, don't use people. It's not nice, and it makes everyone feel bad.

People who are not loyal hurt the people they claim to care about the most. But there is nothing wrong with disloyalty if we all understand that loyalty has no place in friendships created on mutual exploitation of resources for personal gain (or "friendship").

My best friend stole my girlfriend.

I was dating the most amazing girl in high school and he stole her from me. He lied to me, he made up stories that were unbelievable and told them to her, he made me look like an idiot. They dated for a year or two until she dumped him because of how childish and immature he was (which I agreed with).

But then…she moved on and started dating someone else! And guess what? That guy lived near them both for years! It turns out this new guy wasn't so innocent either! He had a secret relationship going on with another girl at the same time as well!

My best friend stole money from me.

One day, I went to take out some money from my bank account. As I was doing so, I noticed that there was an extra $100 in my account! I knew that I hadn't deposited any cash recently, so this was very strange.

I was confused for a little while and then remembered that my friend had visited me at home earlier in the day and must have deposited the money into my account without telling me or perhaps by accident.

I quickly called him up (as he lived nearby) and asked if he had put $100 into my bank account without telling me or if it was an accident. He got really defensive and said no; however, when pressed further he admitted that this wasn't true and eventually told me how much money had actually been stolen: $1000!

My best friend knows my secrets.

When you make a friend, you hope that they will keep your secrets. But what happens when they don't?

You tell your best friend about how you like someone, or how much you miss them. You tell them about everything that happened at school that day, in detail and with emotion. You trust this person to know the truth about who you are as a person and respect those parts of yourself that make up who you are today.

When we share our lives with someone else, we want them to know all of us - the good and the bad, even if it's embarrassing or shameful or difficult for us to talk about. We want our friends to be there for us no matter what because it's not just one thing but many things combined together over time - a friendship built on trust between two people who share their thoughts with each other without fear of judgment or retaliation later down the road (if ever). They shouldn't be afraid of telling secrets either because mutual trust requires mutual respect; both parties need equal power within an exchange (such as friendship) in order for any meaningful relationship between them could ever exist at all!

My friends jokes aren't funny anymore.

Jokes are supposed to be funny, right? If you don't laugh at a joke, it just doesn't work. And if you do laugh at a joke, it means that the person telling the joke did their job and made you chuckle.

I once had a conversation with my friend where I told him that his jokes weren't funny anymore and he tried explaining to me that they were still funny but I just didn't get them because I didn't understand his sense of humor (or something like that). He went on for several minutes trying to convince me but all he did was make me feel more annoyed with him as time went on…

I keep getting into trouble because of my friend.

I'm sick of getting into trouble because of my friend.

I'm the one who always gets blamed for everything, even when I didn't do anything wrong. My friend gets away with everything, and she never takes any responsibility for what happens to me. She's always the one who gets punished - not me!

I don't want to talk to her anymore but she keeps texting me and calling me.

If you don't want to be friends with your best friend, it is important that you express this. I know many people have asked me how to tell their friend that they are no longer friends with them. You should talk to your friend in person, or over the phone. It is best if you choose a time and place where you both feel comfortable and relaxed so that there are no distractions or interruptions while talking (i.e., don't do it at school).

Tell them exactly how you feel about being friends anymore:

• Tell them that although you love them, right now isn't a good time for us to be friends because _____(insert reason)
• Also let them know that if they want us too we can still hang out sometimes but only when I feel like it!

Friends can really be horrible and they can really get you down, but you should never just sit there and take it all.

If your friend is being a jerk, you should stand up for yourself. If they are hurting your feelings, tell them to stop. If they are making fun of you, tell them that it's not funny! If they're making fun of other people and calling them names and telling them that they're bad people…tell the person picking on someone else to stop! Do not let people walk all over you or take advantage of you or push around or make feel bad about yourself without fighting back!

Conclusion

I hope that this article has helped you to understand how your friend can be horrible and get you down, but the most important thing is that you do something about it. There are many ways to deal with friends like these and it all depends on what kind of person you are.