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I Didn’t Say That Out Loud

I didn’t say it out loud when I watched my sister cry over our father’s casket.

Everyone else wept for the man who raised us.

I wept for the man who broke me.

But I didn’t say that out loud.

Instead, I pressed my hand over hers and nodded solemnly, as if my grief matched hers beat for beat. As if I remembered the same man.

The truth sat in the back of my throat like a stone.

He wasn’t cruel in the ways people expect. There were no belt marks or shouting matches. Nothing you could photograph or record. His punishments came in quieter forms—silences that stretched for days, cold glances that made me want to disappear. He’d humiliate me in front of family, only to call it “toughening me up.”

And the worst part? He was different with my sister.

Gentle. Proud. Affectionate.

He’d brush her hair on school mornings, pack notes in her lunchbox. With me, he pointed out every flaw. “Your walk is too lazy,” “Speak clearly,” “No one likes a girl who sulks.”

I learned early to survive by shrinking.

At his funeral, people spoke in soft voices about his discipline, his work ethic, his sacrifices. And I nodded. I even smiled when they called me “his little shadow.” I wanted to scream, He taught me to disappear. But I didn’t say that out loud.

After the burial, my sister and I sat on the porch with mugs of weak tea. She was wrapped in his favorite sweater.

“You remember how he used to sing that old Kishore Kumar song in the car?” she asked, eyes misty.

I remembered. But not the way she did.

I remembered how he’d turn the volume up when I tried to talk. How he’d sing louder when I got too quiet. How his voice filled every space until there was no room left for mine.

But I just nodded and said, “Yeah. He loved that song.”

Because what would be the point?

What would I gain by tearing down her version of him?

Even in death, he divided us. One child who felt adored. One who felt like a ghost.

It wasn’t her fault. She didn’t see what I saw. Maybe she never would.

A week later, we went through his belongings. His journals, old photos, medals. She handled everything like sacred relics. I handled them like evidence.

We found a stack of letters he’d written but never sent. Some to her. Some to Mom. None to me.

That should’ve hurt.

But it didn’t.

It confirmed what I’d always known—that I was the unchosen one.

Still, I didn’t say it out loud.

I let her take the medals. The journals. The dusty framed photo of him holding her in the hospital.

I kept one thing: his watch.

Not because I wanted it. But because it didn’t tick. It had stopped years ago.

It felt honest.

For weeks, I wore that broken watch like armor. A quiet reminder that time couldn’t hurt me anymore. That I’d survived him.

One evening, my sister called me crying.

She found out she was pregnant.

She didn’t feel ready. She was terrified. I stayed silent on the phone for a moment too long, trying to figure out what comfort sounded like when you’ve never received it yourself.

Then I said, “You’ll be a great mom.”

It was the truth.

She was everything he wasn’t.

She thanked me, voice shaking. “I just wish Dad was here to see it.”

I bit my tongue until it almost bled.

I wanted to say, No, you don’t. Not really. He’d turn it into another test. Another performance. But I didn’t.

Instead, I whispered, “Yeah. He’d be proud.”

And maybe, in some small way, that was true. Proud of her. Of what she became in spite of him.

I couldn’t rewrite the past. Couldn’t force her to see the shadows he left in me.

But I could protect her peace.

That was something.

Months passed.

The baby came.

A girl.

The first time I held her, she curled her tiny fingers around mine. Her breath smelled like milk and magic. And for the first time in a long time, I felt something open inside me.

“I’ll never let you feel invisible,” I whispered, voice cracking.

That I did say out loud.

Because I needed someone to hear it.

Because I needed to believe it myself.

Because silence, I’ve learned, is a kind of curse that passes down unless someone breaks it.

So now, when people say, “You must’ve had a great father to raise a sister like that,” I smile.

And I say nothing.

But I hold that little girl close.

And I speak to her every day.

Because some things you do say out loud—especially the things you never heard when you needed them most.

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