Hidden Mistakes: The Real Reasons That Drove Your Ex Away

Many times men take a lot for granted in relationship only to realise the very last minute that they’ve committed an unpardonable offence which they cannot forgive themselves for.

Just a few months ago, I was in a wonderful relationship with a wonderful lady call Clara, someone very dear to my heart. Usually as most men use to do, over time I started taking the relationship for granted and started flawing in most areas where I used to pay much attention.

She did everything to draw my attention but to no avail. I labelled her as a nagger and also started accusing her of being so jealous and over domineering.

One faithful Saturday, we’ve just come back from a friend’s party and she couldn’t just stop troubling my ears over some few activities she wasn’t happy about at the party. This developed into a heated argument, I said so many unreasonable things to her and asked her to leave my presence and never come back.

Clara left that faithful day and I never set eyes on her again. She did not call, text, or even send a message through any of our friends. I behaved as if I don’t care for a while.

I thought I was bluffing and that she will eventually come back begging but this never happened. I also realised that she has gradually lost attraction for me through my many uncalled for attitude.

It finally dawned on me that, if I don’t do something soon I’m going to lose Clara to somebody else. I was perplexed and didn’t know where to start, who to contact, and even what strategy to use.

I started seeking answers online about how people in such situations manage to get their ex back.

Through my search I came across Brad Browning, a relationship expert who has helped thousands in similar situations to get their ex-girlfriends back.

I went through 5-weeks coaching on how I could get Clara back and get her to stay for good and what I learnt is what I’m delivering here today.

Now, it looks more like Clara has me dumped. Yeah, the feeling of getting dumped sucks. There's no question about that. Sometimes, you can go crazy thinking about all the things that went wrong in your relationship.

But the bottom of the line is, the reason why your relationship ended is because your girlfriend lost attraction for you. No, it wasn't just because of that argument, or you left your dirty laundry around the house or that it's "her, not you...", it's because the foundation of her attraction for you faded, and it's your fault.

Though there are ways you can "re-attract" your girlfriend you have to first understand why she dumped you. Only then will you know how you can get her back.

Brad Browning – Ways to Attract Her Back

This is what I like to call The Six Deadly Relationship Sins thought by Brad. Now, I'm not saying that you committed all of these mistakes, but chances are you probably exhibited at least one of these characteristics that pretty much forced your girlfriend to leave you (even if she's claimed that she left you for another reason).

The first Deadly Sin is a common problem that over half of men have in their relationships - and that's being way too controlling. Women are repelled by men that put unrealistic restraints on their lives.

Though asserting your dominance in a relationship is important, you have to know exactly when "enough is enough". If you don't, then don't be surprised that your girlfriend or wife left you.

The second Deadly Sin is a bit of a weird one, but always seeking external validity from your girlfriend is a huge attraction-breaker.

What does that mean? It means that you constantly seek out your girlfriend's approval. Asking questions like, "Do you love me? Do you think I'm fit enough? Is my penis big enough for you? Did you have a good time?" this repels women.

It's like saying to her that you aren't confident enough or good enough... and these are reeks of insecurity.

The third Deadly Sin is being jealous all the time. Were you jealous that she was flirting with other guys? Maybe she was hanging out with a guy friend that you felt a little suspicious about.

Well, if you did exhibit this emotion, then again, don't be surprised that your girlfriend lost some attraction for you. Jealousy is the ultimate form of insecurity.

So now that you know only some of the relationship killers, how do you go about "re-attracting" your girlfriend?

Well, it starts with employing some of these most powerful psychological techniques. Yes, even if things seem completely hopeless right now, you can get her back if you know what you're doing.

Even if you think your relationship with your ex girlfriend is completely torn, I can bet you there is a way to make her fall hopelessly in love with you.

You see, what a lot of men do when they get dumped is start acting like complete hussies. They'll start asking for forgiveness and start begging for second chances.

If you're guilty of one of these mistakes, then you better start listening to my advice... because chances are you're doing something right now that is pushing your girlfriend further and further away into the arms of another man.

So, do yourself a favour and check out the free video from Brad Browning I’m not able to outline everything here.

In it, he’ll tell you exactly how you can get your ex girlfriend back as soon as possible... and he'll go over some other Deadly Sins as well.

But you better check out this video quickly because it’s been some time and also some extreme feminists groups are protesting to take it down. These women think the psychological techniques used in this video are too manipulative

So what's the best way to convey these messages to your girlfriend?

Well, first, you're going to have to make sure you are actually okay with the breakup. That's right, the best way to get your girlfriend to be with you again is to move on.

You need to start dating other women.

You need to pickup some hobbies.

You need to hang out with your friends and enjoy life.

Once your girlfriend sees these things then, she'll start to want you back again.

She'll be asking herself, "why did I dump this guy in the first place?"

You see, women hate being wrong. And when you send her a message that you're still a high value, attractive male that has completely moved on, she'll begin to start getting attracted to you again.

The hamster in her brain will start sprinting, and, if you convey this message properly, she'll be forced to come knocking on your bedroom door for another chance at her expense.

That's right, she'll be the one begging you for another go.

So whether you want to just have a brief fling with your ex or you actually want to get back together with her, I have learnt the ways you can trick her mind into wanting you again.

She'll have no choice in the matter, even if she has claimed that she was "completely done with you."

One of the patented techniques in Brad’s package is called the Covert Jealousy... this is where you can use other women that you know to make your ex girlfriend regret that she ever left you in the first place.

You can also use Brad’s Rekindling Phase tactic that will force her to be extremely horny for you in a matter of days (and after, she'll never want to leave you again).

There are so many techniques I could not share here, this article is already long. I will urge you, if you’re really in a situation like mine, to follow the link below to watch the free video by Brad and you will be glad you did.

Brad Browning Video

And by the way, if you want to know how it ended with me and Clara, just say so in the comment and I will give you a full run down.

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