7 Signs She is Not Going Anywhere

When a woman is in love, she shows affection, care, and emotions. But when she is deeply committed and invested in making a future with you, she shows the following signs, and the 7 sign is undeniable!

1: She plans her future with you

You will be amazed to know about the power of the word "we". When she uses the word "we will do this next month" or "We will achieve this milestone next year" " meaning that she includes you in her future plans.

Expert Analysis:

In his book The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work, Dr. John Gottman reveals that couples who develop "shared goals and tasks" develop long-term intimacy compared to those who live in infatuations and attachments.

2: She starts investing in your relations

Investing TIME, ENERGY, AND MONEY is not a normal thing for someone.

But it is easy and doable. When a woman plans to be with you forever, she starts taking care of your parents, your friends, and your circle.

Expert Insights:

Esther Perel in his famous book “ Mating in Captivity: SEX, LIES and DOMESTIC BLISS” delineates that committed women will always develop a "shared Ecosystem" around them.

3: She celebrates your SUCCESS like her own

A committed woman will be genuinely happy for you in your victories, no matter how small they are!

The reason behind this is that she loves you, she sees her reflection in your achievements, whether it is

1. a promotion,
2. a fitness goal or
3. a personal goal

Simply, your happiness is her happiness!

4: She presents her love in your language

Women will not go anywhere if she is expressing “psychological togetherness”

Meaning that assess her love language. She will use words like “ we are going to have dinner outside today" or "We should invest our time doing this task".

Expert Insights:

The Harvard University study reveals that the women who are in a relationship and don't share a psychological bond with their partner sooner or later start comparing their progress with their partner.

So the women who plans her future with you never compromise emotional and psychological intimacy with her partner.

5: She rebuilds the trust during the conflict

Women are emotional beings they don't to listen a logic during a conflict. Also, in a relationship tensions are a normal part but when things get tens, your girl will not emotionally withdraw. She talks thoroughly to the matter and rebuild trust after the conflict resolution.

Expert Analysis:

Dr Sue Johnson’s “Hold me Tight” is an outstanding book that explains the girl who plans future with you always develop a attachment bond and always turn towards you after a conflict or a disengagement. Moreover, she always insure secure that emotional bond only with you and never shares her vulnerabilities in front of any other guy.

6: She encourages growth and never exaggerates your weaknesses

A truly loving and sincere woman supports her man's growth even in his worst times. Also, she will never be the person who ridicules his vulnerabilities and weaknesses.

Expert insights:

Relationship experts reveal that a sincere woman reminds his partner of his strengths, potential, and his worth by showing her unwavering belief.

7: She plans to introduce you to her connections

The women who want to be with you for a whole life will introduce you to her family, close friends, and personal connections.

If she is not into you, she will not develop a connection with her family with you. Simply means she does not only want you, she wants your world.

Expert insights:

A research-based study published in ChangedMind explains that women will always make connections with the men's family, and vice versa, for a strong and long-lasting relationship.

The Wrap:

The 7 signs I mentioned in the story are not just romantic and emotional gestures but also insightful signals of emotional maturity and long-lasting partnership. So, if you’re in a relationship and find any 5 of the signals in your girl, that can be your girl forever.