The SEXY ATTITUDE

Every women wants to be sexy, the feeling of being desired empowers women. It is part of who we are and who we want to be. To some being sexy comes natural, for others it takes a little effort. For those that struggle, I am here to offer some tips to help you achieve that desired goal to be the sexiest woman in the room. The first thing you need to know is that being sexy is not just about the way you look. It is also an attitude, your confidence should ooze from your pours. When you walk into a room you should command that room, you want all eyes on you. Being a wimp is not at all sexy, so stand up for yourself. Let it be known that you are a diva and that you don't want to be known any other way. You want to impress others with you swag, with the way you move and the way you smile.

Of course the way you look is everything. And for me it, I think it all starts with the hair. I was blessed with having thick full hair, so for me I don't have to work on my hair that much. But I hate feeling like I have flat hair. One tip to fix this is to turn you head upside down. Shake your hair out and use a hair dryer to give your hair a pick me up. Using the dryer will add volume to your hair. Adding a little volume powder while using the hair dryer on your hair will work amazing. I know at times everyone just wants to let their hair air dry, but taking a little extra time will go along way. Changing the style of your hair is fun and will give you a different look if you are going out with that special someone. If you have had a long day and want to freshen up a bit, try dry shampoo. I love dry shampoo, it works wonders and will give you a fresh feeling.

Of course we have to have the makeup right. Makeup is an essential part of most women's daily beauty routine. I am not comfortable with the all natural look myself. But there are times when less is more. The whole purpose of makeup is to enhance the beauty you already have. Makeup will not make you beautiful and if you wear to much you may wind up looking like Bozo the Clown. Or you will be the center of Tammy Faye Bakker jokes, nobody wants that. You want to bring out your eyes and lips that is what you want people to notice. To bring your eyes out the first thing you want to do is use primer. Using primer will help the colors you use to blend better and last long. Next select the color of eye shadows you like or works best for you. Then you will want to work on the eye lashes. I have never been a big fan of fake eyelashes for many reasons. So the best thing to do is curl your eye lashes before you apply mascara. Curling your eyelashes will make a world of difference. And adding the right mascara will add to the finishing touch. Apply mascara that is extra volumizing, that is the mascara that will make your lashes look fuller. Personally for myself I find adding mascara or eyeliner to by bottom lid makes my eyes look to dark. So for a brighter look I do not add anything to my bottom eye lid. Another thing adding color to the top eye lid makes us look like we are fresh out of the 60's. So for the top lid I just add a little bit of highlighter, this also gives your eyes a brighter look.

Choosing the right blush is so important. Remember we don't want to look like Bozo the clown. You will want to choose one to match your skin tone and add color to your cheeks. You want to apply the blush on your cheeks bone, the best way to do this is to put your index finger right by the side of your nose. The move back and up 3 spaces and start brushing a small amount of blush there. After you have your blush on you want to add a small amount of highlighter right above where the blush is. This will give you a healthy glow. Make sure to blend the highlighter in completely and be careful not to smudge it if using liquid highlighter. It is also helpful to add some highlighter to your nose. So just add some right down the center of your nose and then blend it in. We don't want to forget about the lips they are one of the things you want people to notice. Using a lip liner will make your lips look more defined. Choose a color that is flattering to you. All shades of makeup do not look right on everyone. I personally stay away from bright pink lipstick or lipstick that is to orange. I find that the wine color or shades of brown or deep red color lip stick work best for me. Everyone is different you will have to choose the one for you. I love lip stain. It will last all day long and look fantastic. If you are using lip stain I also recommend using a gloss with that. Lip stain is great but has the tendency to not have any shine. Adding the lip glossjj gives my lips the look I want.

Of course it is all about the way you dress. It doesn't make since to spend time to do the make up and fix the hair if we walk around in paper bags all day. So how should be dress to be sexy. People will judge you by the way you look right away, that is a fact, I do it. When I see someone that has an old stained outfit on, with messy hair and no makeup. I have the tendency to think she is sloppy and doesn't care about herself. When I see someone with shorts on that are way to short or a top that shows way to much of her breast I have the tendency to think she is a slut or looking for attention. It goes without saying we don't want people to think this about us. So the first thing we always want to do is show up wearing clean clothes that are smelling and looking good. Even a pair of sweets can be sexy as long as they are clean. Also the more you leave to the imagination the sexier you will be. We want to be sexy not slutty, and clothing that shows to much just looks tacky and actually offends some people. So we want to find a middle ground we don't want to dress like our 95 year old grandmother and we don't want to walk around looking like a street hooker. How do we do this, it is easy! Just by putting on a pair of jeans that fit you nice and a nice blouse or t-shirt you can look like a rock star. It is ok to go sleeveless or show a small amount of cleavage. Just make sure you are not completely hanging out and you have room to breathe in those jeans. Wearing a dress and heels to shows of your legs is always amazing. Even wearing a pair of shorts with a nice top and cool pair of sandals can be sexy. Just make sure not to go over board on the showing of skin. We want to remember that sexy is so much about attitude. So have confidence in your self and know you look good, and the sexy will ooze from you.