The more children the children, the more parents!

Will you still be like a child, speak your heart in front of your parents? will you still cry like a child in your parents' arms? have you been hurt and aggrieved, and will you still tell your parents that your work is not going well? would you be willing to talk to your parents about something happy and funny? will you share it with your parents and let them be happy together?

In the perception of some middle-aged people, parents begin to become an encumbrance to them. Instead of bringing benefits to them, they are always holding them back. People become impatient with their parents, criticize and educate their parents, interfere with their parents, and even treat their parents in a more mean way. This scene is just like when I was young, I was a burden to my parents, and my parents always controlled me. Is this the earthly newspaper?

In such a relationship, parents or parents, children or children? no longer, it has been reversed. Parents are supposed to be parents, but now they are children. And they, in front of their parents, should have been children, they will always be their parents' children, but now they seem to have become parents. If they become parents, then parents can only become children.

Many people, at the mention of their parents, complain, feel irritable and feel in a bad mood. Parents, as they think, have lost their abilities in all aspects. they are not only of no help to themselves, but even cumbersome. Is this really not the case? this is their own cognitive bias and there is something wrong with their own views. There are at least three problems.

First, parents, even if nothing can help you, they can not improve your life, or even bring trouble to your life, but the existence of parents, just exist, is some form of help to you. Young friends may not be able to understand what I said, but older friends with some life experience may be able to understand.

Second, even if parents' understanding, thinking and learning abilities decline, they can't think about deep problems, understand complex logic, and can't help solve the problems in your life, but they know what's really important. The simpler the person is, the less complicated he is, the more he knows what is important. They can't be complicated, they can only be simple, so simple that there is nothing left that is complex, only what is really important.

Third, now that you know the law of what you want to come true, you know the law of attraction, you know the law of consciousness creation, so when I say, your parents have become what you know, and your parents are what you think they are. the decline in all aspects of the ability to cause trouble for you, there is a very important part of the reason, because you have that kind of cognition. Your perception of that is a powerful factor that promotes them to become that. Do you agree with me?

I have said many times that the reason why an intimate relationship is an intimate relationship is that in such a relationship, both parties have a great influence on each other, and your influence on your parents has always shaped your parents, just like your parents. Shaped you. What your cognition is, your world begins to change in what direction. When you have a certain fixed cognition, when your certain cognition continues, then your world will be fixed as you perceive it. Unless your perception changes, this state will not change.

Readers: now the way of communication with parents is no longer confrontational. I often say something from the bottom of my heart with them. I am a child again, love them and appreciate their valuable qualities.

Me: when you become a child, they become parents. People think that only when their parents are kind and their children can be filial piety, such a relationship can be reversed. When you can master yourself and you can show filial piety to your parents, your parents will become kind.

Reader: between and parents, it is quite simple to think that no matter how big the hedge is, it is nothing more than the hindrance of their respective needs. I am like a rebellious son, full of thorns, and it always costs money to get sick, so it is difficult for them to be in a good mood for me in difficult times. Well, after my own temperament softened, my parents also softened.

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