I Got Me This VDAY <3

Are you "anti Valentines day"?? Well, Valentines is upon us. Firstly, what is Valentines day? It's when lovers express their affection with greetings, gifts and cuddles.... so what do you do if your single? Uhhhhhh.... well I bet the majority just sit around and pout that they aren't able to perform to these standards. That's too gloomy for me. How about we change that??!!

Lets talk about embracing Valentines day as a day of LOVE in general. You can still express affection, just do it with yourself, you got yourself to love! #selflove

I believe in remembering to love myself everyday and especially for Valentines day. But with Valentines day stigma in the air in February I get that its tough to stay in this vibration, it's okay to be upset about things everyone is experiencing that you aren't. Your'e used to the perspective that's like hey; "I'm single on a day thats all about couples I am just all alone and got no love to give or receive.. This sucks...I want someone to buy me roses and chocolates and watch a sappy love movie with. So how am I supposed to celebrate this day, it's not fair!"

How about we open up our minds and make Valentines Day a day for everyone and anyone? How about this.. say hey; " ya I am single right now, BUT ... I can make the most out of it instead of being negative. I am going to celebrate the love I have for myself and for my life! I want roses? Heck the stores down the road and I can buy myself one, while I am there buy a heart shaped box of chocolates! Then I can watch all my movies by myself. I will take this time to show myself that I am very loved and I am not going to be negatively affected by being single."

Now isn't that a different way of thinking.. not the normal way to portray Valentines day. I am already an "out of the box" thinker, it takes practice but it makes me feel way empowered and confident that my relationship status is not in control of my emotional state today.

Here's the other catch, you actually aren't going to be alone today! You got music...and more importantly you got MY playlist to guide you and help you embrace loving your single self! I don't need to explain much what music does to our souls, we all know already, it is just amazing. Music decorates time and space and makes you feel anything. So I make playlists that bring me on a journey to whatever theme I am focusing on. It can't just be any songs thrown together too and on shuffle! Oh my; I don't joke around, I take this as a serious art. I want you to experience what I do and let the music bring you on an adventure like you paid for this!

So here we go! I curated the songs listed below in hopes that it brings you from that state of lower vibrations to F** off! Imma be rocking Valentines day by MYSELF.

It's going to start with my "go to" song to embody the confidence of being with myself. I start with trap songs because they have that vibe to them already. The lyrics are dead on and the beat is catchy, so catchy to take my attention off that sad feeling of being single for Valentines day....

1. "Me Myself and I " G-Eazy and Bebe Rexha

When that ends I am starting to feel a bit empowered, more okay than I started. I'm tapping my foot and starting to think I am ready to be happy about being me, myself and I today. I need anther song to push that over the edge though, thats why this song is next. This song makes me wanna be fierce! We got beyonce and nicki minaj they are the definition of fierceness. And the way she sings "feeling myself ya feeling myslef " well I love expressing to a beat and this one is funny I can't help but to go along with it.

2. "Feeling Myself" Beyonce and Nicki Minaj

Okay now I am onto something here, I am liking this mood these two songs have put me in, I want more. Well now I like to throw in the happier beats, I wanna end up in dance and I wanna sing because this is where music moves you and gets you to forget about the world aroundso you can forget about those sad Valentines Day feels.

3. ''Good Thing" Zedd and Kehlani

4. "Put Yourself First" Crazy Ex-Girlfriend Cast

Once #3 and #4 hit I have already hit the bathroom and done my makeup so pretty, my hair done and hit my closet and made myself sexy AF, and all for myself. I am Vday ready.

5. ''Born This Way" Lady Gaga.

Give it to Lady Gaga for setting the stage of self-love power with this anthem. I am now perked up and ready to blast my speakers. Loving myself for Valentines day will be the way to go!

6." ME!'' Taylor Swift....

Of course we need another song to sing too, Taylor Swift takes pride in being different than everybody else so you should too!! This song means so much to me and gets me every damn time, I am so happy to share this feeling.

7. "Confident" Demi Lovato

Lovato brings back that lower tempo and sexiness with this song. I am feeling confident and snapping my fingers with her the full way.

8. "Beautiful" Christina Aguilera

Of course every playlist needs some hard feels. Beautiful takes you to that space. You have shifted your vibes and mindset with happy songs and you're up dancing already so it is time to pause, be vulnerable and feel something much stronger to really experience that shift. You can fully realize you are beautiful despite the insecurities and loneliness you may be experiencing. And this is why you are listening to this playlist in the first place.

9. "Love Myself" Hailee Steinfeld.

I have cried from the way the music has moved me. I am on a whole other plane right now. Next is "Love Myself" and Steinfeld's lyrics and melodies in this song really pack the next punch.

I hope by now you have embraced the "Anti-Valentines day" train on a positive note. I hope you are with me and the music on this playlist feeling so empowered and utterly in love with yourself. Because it is time for a finally.

10. "Girl On Fire" (Inferno Version) Alicia Keys and Nicki Minaj

You should be feeling like your'e on fire. You better be clapping to that beat in triumph, and if not I dare you to start the playlist all over again!

This Valentines Day I hope you can listen to my playlist and feel inspired to stay positive and lift your spirits up enough to express love for yourself and be ok that that is all you got right now. It is human to want a special someone and to not be alone. So for listening to my playlist I can let you in on a little secret.... Love yourself and more importantly embrace it, accept it and love will find its way to you!! You will get to experience Valentines day the "normal" way eventually ok just stay positive!!