The Essential Paradox.
True Essentials vs. Life's Facades

Humans are creatures who misunderstand and believe in things that can be true or false, there is no problem if only a single person believes in something false but if the whole nation, society, or rebuttal believes in something false, it'll become the problem of decades or even centuries because of ancestor's false belief and now their descendants believe in what their ancestors used to think, this is how the whole race get on the wrong path.
There are a lot of people who are getting successful because they don't listen to society and do what they like to. The thing we have to understand is that it is not essential to believe in what everyone else considers cause they all can be wrong. Your parents, grandparents, or siblings can be wrong, it is not essential to follow them. The example we can take from nowadays is that people consider a degree to be necessary to earn money, but it is not the only way, a degree is necessary to get hired but not to hire. A degree is necessary to work in school but not to open a school. A degree is necessary to work in a company but not to open it. This is how the rich are getting richer and the other stay where they are. Change your thinking it seems much more essential to get a degree than it is.
It can also be taken from this that success matters not the process, nobody cares if you get successful by starting a company, getting a job in a big company, or creating content on social media. They only see the results they don't care about the process, this is what you and I also care about. Be wise and don't listen to anyone, listen to the voices in your head and do what you like to do what pleases you. Everyone will criticize and give advice but it is not essential to consider their criticism and pieces of advice. It is not essential to think about what they think. It is not essential to please them. Take a stand for yourself, your priorities, your likes or dislikes, and your dreams. Take a stand for your peace and future. Be separate, they will try to depress you, and they will take everything from you that they can.
Be the one your past self can admire. Be the one your future self can be proud of. Be better than what you were yesterday and tomorrow become better than what you are today. This is all that you need to follow. Compare yourself with yourself. This is your war with yourself.
It is essential to take a step back and see how far you have come. It is essential to appreciate and celebrate what you achieve. But today's generation just takes time to see how much they have to do, how much remains to achieve, and how far they have to go. We discourage ourselves from what we don't achieve but don't appreciate ourselves for what achieve. It is essential to give yourself a break and give yourself a treat. Take a sigh of relief when you get tired and on what you achieve. Never get lost to impress. Give yourself some time don't need to hush and push yourself. Become the one who can please you, not people. There is no need to be perfect on whom everyone can be proud. Try to become the one on whom you can rely for your future.
We try to achieve the highest rank but not to achieve what pleases us.
Be kind to yourself. It is not essential to pressurize yourself to achieve which doesn't give you peace and satisfaction. It is not essential to get other's approval to live. It is not essential to satisfy everyone around you.
It is not essential to push yourself so hard.
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Excellent piece
Such an eye opening piece